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Worst of all bad character flaws is a deceiver. A liar. She appears to be one. You can never trust a liar.
You know about the deception now.
If he is a true friend, you gotta let him know ASAP, somehow. Not saying it will be easy, but you gotta do the right thing and let him know.
Otherwise, you too are a deceiver.
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I accidentally slept with a woman once,
Travis laffin.. How do you accidentaly do that? Is like your shoe lace comes untied going down a set of stairs and kicks off a stream of uncontrollable events?... You go to a neighbor's to hang out. A guest is there with short shorts. She believes your bullschit and thinks you're wonderful. You did not plan on her being there, wearing short shorts, or believing your bullschit. Accidents happen. GFY. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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It's like this,..
If ya tell him, he'll feel obligated to end the relationship right now.
If you don't,..it'll go on for 3 or 4 more months before it peters out.
Tellin' him now will deprive him of 3 or 4 months of that all important commodity known as puzzy.
The situation will find its correct path without your help. Mental note: Bristoe and okok are schitty best friends. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever. That's akin to telling me the sun will rise in the east. GFY. Travis
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If she is out in public with another guy when she told her husband she is in the UK I don't think she really cares if he finds out.
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not your business, not your marriage, not your problem. Add Mannlicher to the list of worthless friends. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I can't image a friend not telling me.
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
The selfish side says don't tell him, they may have to sell this new home on 3.5 acres on the Clackamas river...lol Just kidding..I'm telling him in the morning, just kills me I'm in this postion...FCK!
Jed York does not own the 49ers; Russell Wilson does.
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Bristoe nailed it on the first page.
None of your business... stay out of it. Add curdog to the list of worthless friends. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Stay out of it. One don't hurt and two don't fit.
Son of a liberal: " What did you do in the War On Terror, Daddy?"
Liberal father: " I fought the Americans, along with all the other liberals."
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new home on 3.5 acres on the Clackamas river......
Is she hot?
EVERYBODY is pro-gun, some just don't know it. When an anti-gun person is in trouble, the first thing they do is call 911 and demand that they send somebody with a gun!
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Don't ever think you mean more to your friend than his wife. What a crock of [bleep] horseschit. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I can't image a friend not telling me. That's because a friend WOULD tell you. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I'm betting that if ages of all the posters were known, us old guys would damn near be unanimous in the " none of your business" category.
Could be that we have seen the hand played out both ways and know the winning strategy.
Keep your mouth shut about it.
Now and forever.
Never holler whoa or look back in a tight place
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
The selfish side says don't tell him, they may have to sell this new home on 3.5 acres on the Clackamas river...lol Just kidding..I'm telling him in the morning, just kills me I'm in this postion...FCK! and he's gonna ask you why you didn't say something sooner. at least with you there you can talk to him. don't drop the bomb on him and leave, especially since you've known this long.
Beware of any old man in a profession where one usually dies young.
Calm seas don't make sailors.
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
That brings up the most important question that needs to be answered in this thread ... Catchin' any? The fishing has been pretty slow..I've gone 3 for seven, all Hens, so I have a lot of roe. The water is super low and the water temp is around 47.There's probably a lot of fish stacked in the Willamette, waiting for some rain.
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Bristoe nailed it on the first page.
None of your business... stay out of it. Add curdog to the list of worthless friends. Travis TFF.
Faith and love of others knows no mileage nor bounds. That's simply the way it is.
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After the game is over, the king and the pawn go into the same box.
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to use an overused term, been there and done that. saw my buddies wife in a car in the park getting cozy with somebody else. they had 3 kids and i was really torn. i ended up telling him and he started crying and told me he was pretty sure already. they divorced, he got hosed and it f'd his life up for close to a decade but he is past it and happy these days.
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Guessing she did go to the UK, but had all intention of getting back early so she could hook up.
Was the place you saw her in close to where her husband works or where they live? If so, balls on her part.
He needs to see what day she landed on terra firma. Pun intended. Travis, your up to bat.
Faith and love of others knows no mileage nor bounds. That's simply the way it is.
dogzapper
After the game is over, the king and the pawn go into the same box.
Italian Proverb
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Does't matter that it is the truth or not, he's going to hate you for telling him. Don't let him know it is you, but let him know what his wife is up to. She should have return ticket stubs from the UK if in case you made a mistake. Not a chance...were pretty close, I've known him for 18 years.
Jed York does not own the 49ers; Russell Wilson does.
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