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As luck would have it i am sobering up on a friends couch. Left our trucks at the bar and walked to his house. Just wanted to say thankyou to everyone at the fire, i just mainly lurk but have read a great deal at this forum. I have found great pleasure of being a member of this forum! I usually dont post much as i feel i dont have a lot to offer. I have really been tested through my years ( i know i am a youngin) but i believe i am getting ready for my first divorce. Dont really know what to say but thank you during these troubling times.
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Well good on you for walking home and not driving,
Stay busy during troubled times , they'll pass , night time will be the issue, laying awake and thinking too much about nothing
Either fix it or go
Best of luck with whatever happens
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When you get real down, pick up a Bible and open it anywhere and start reading.
Remember, many have been in your shoes, and many more will be.
The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time by the blood of patriots and tyrants.
If being stupid allows me to believe in Him, I'd wish to be a retard. Eisenhower and G Washington should be good company.
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Stop and think. You're so drunk you had to walk to a friend's house and sober up on his couch. Reckon this has any bearing on your impending divorce? Maturity (not the same thing as age) would probably help a lot. Eyeball is spot on with his advice.
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I suspect Tommy may sober up and wonder WTF he was thinking on this post.
Can't say that I haven't been in his shoes before, being drunk and doing goofy things.
"1st divorce?" Man there may not have to be one, let alone more.
Don't know the cause and effect sequence of marital problems and drinking either, but either way, let's let this thread fade away.
Hoping for the best, bro.
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Tommy;
Women come and go, some times the problem is you and sometimes it's her. The only problem you are responsible for and the only problem you can solve is you.
If this drinking problem is a frequent occurance I'd suggest AA. You would be amazed at the number of people who have gone thru the same set of problems and have come out the other side knowing how to find their way with out the help of booze.
Good thinking on walking home, maybe those steps will be the first steps of a journey to peace and serenity.
Good Luck
Jim
"Whensoever the General Government assumes undelegated powers, its acts are unauthoritative, void, and of no force." --Thomas Jefferson
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"1st divorce?" Man there may not have to be one, let alone more. I've been there but it was for another reason. All I was suggesting is that he think about things and perhaps ponder if he's acting wisely. Did the same thing myself and had to admit that I was not wise. Perhaps you're right, though. Maybe all of us should stay out of it and just let him destroy himself. Who needs advice?
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As luck would have it i am sobering up on a friends couch. Left our trucks at the bar and walked to his house. Just wanted to say thankyou to everyone at the fire, i just mainly lurk but have read a great deal at this forum. I have found great pleasure of being a member of this forum! I usually dont post much as i feel i dont have a lot to offer. I have really been tested through my years ( i know i am a youngin) but i believe i am getting ready for my first divorce. Dont really know what to say but thank you during these troubling times. Drinking helps. Good luck! Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Tommy;
Women come and go, some times the problem is you and sometimes it's her. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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You can learn alot during your 1st divorce.
Good luck.
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Good luck on that upcoming event Travis! 
The desert is a true treasure for him who seeks refuge from men and the evil of men.
In it is contentment
In it is death and all you seek
(Quoted from "The Bleeding of the Stone" Ibrahim Al-Koni)
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"1st divorce?" Man there may not have to be one, let alone more. I've been there but it was for another reason. All I was suggesting is that he think about things and perhaps ponder if he's acting wisely. Did the same thing myself and had to admit that I was not wise. Perhaps you're right, though. Maybe all of us should stay out of it and just let him destroy himself. Who needs advice? Dang Mickey, I was just hoping to cut him some slack on the drunken stuper. If he gets a sober chance to ask for advice, that's a different story. But historically, open forums and marriage issues don't mix. Even then, eyeball gave him #1 already.
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Tommy;
Women come and go, some times the problem is you and sometimes it's her. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read. Travis Considering you, I'm not surprised. Jim
"Whensoever the General Government assumes undelegated powers, its acts are unauthoritative, void, and of no force." --Thomas Jefferson
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You can learn alot during your 1st divorce.
Good luck. Even more during your 2nd and after the 3rd you'll be a Rhodes Scholar
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"1st divorce?" Man there may not have to be one, let alone more. I've been there but it was for another reason. All I was suggesting is that he think about things and perhaps ponder if he's acting wisely. Did the same thing myself and had to admit that I was not wise. Perhaps you're right, though. Maybe all of us should stay out of it and just let him destroy himself. Who needs advice? Dang Mickey, I was just hoping to cut him some slack on the drunken stuper. If he gets a sober chance to ask for advice, that's a different story. But historically, open forums and marriage issues don't mix. Even then, eyeball gave him #1 already. Later on I was wondering if maybe I had read you wrong. I'm relieve to know that I did and apologize for my "catty" remark on the end. I've been knee walking drunk before and after many years I have decided that drinking is not the way for me. Others have to walk by the light they have but it ain't for me. A close friend was once a teacher and later in life one of his students was shot and killed after a night of drinking. Not sure what started the argument but my friend made a statement that has stuck with me. He said, "Very few good things happen after midnight and nothing good comes from being in a beer joint." Drunks can argue the finer points of this philosophy but my personal take on it is I am in complete agreement.
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Good luck on that upcoming event Travis! It will be a success. She already understands I don't listen to anything unless I'm saying it and I've only been wrong once. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I'm thinking most habitual drunks don't walk home when they have a vehicle. Do they Travis? 
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The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time by the blood of patriots and tyrants.
If being stupid allows me to believe in Him, I'd wish to be a retard. Eisenhower and G Washington should be good company.
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Good luck on that upcoming event Travis! It will be a success. She already understands I don't listen to anything unless I'm saying it and I've only been wrong once. Travis and what was her name?
The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time by the blood of patriots and tyrants.
If being stupid allows me to believe in Him, I'd wish to be a retard. Eisenhower and G Washington should be good company.
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Good luck on that upcoming event Travis! It will be a success. She already understands I don't listen to anything unless I'm saying it and I've only been wrong once. Travis She got a sister under 300lbs?
Paul
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