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Give her a dvd of the movie Fireproof. Ask her to watch it and let you know when she has. If she doesn't watch it or watches it and shrugs her shoulders run like a greyhound, get the attorney and take care of the kids.
I would whether it matters or not also dig into the other man thing. I am betting he is very close by partner.
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GOD created the marriage relationship, seek HIM if you want to know how to make it work. If you want to know how to not make it work, seek the advice of man. Pretty straight forward, me thinks. YMMV. Well sometimes God say get the F out. He also presumes they are both Christian, which may not be the case.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
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Put JESUS in the center of the marriage. He's the only one that can heal it. Everything else is just a band-aid. : )
\ I don't think suggesting a threesome is going to help the situation.
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He also presumes they are both Christian, which may not be the case.
Better pray that she isn't. They're the worst. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Sorry to hear about your situation. Can't add much to what's been said, but it takes two people to make a marriage work, and counseling won't do anything if both spouses aren't interested in making it work.
I've found women need two primary things in a relationship. One is security (both physical and emotional), sounds like you've provided the material needs, but the emotional nurturing, it sounds like she wasn't able to get and you haven't seemed to realize she needs just as much as if not more so than the material needs.
Trust me, you can say, "Woman, why aren't you happy I've provided every material thing you could possibly want." and that will assuredly get you at best the stink eye.
Women have a need to bitch and moan about things they can't or won't fix, and that you most assuredly you can't fix. A male response to this is, why are we wasting time yabbering about something we can't change? 180 degrees out of what the woman needs. She needs to know you care about her by spending time listening to her complaints and not blowing them off as a waste of your time. And if you spend the time listening to her, you'll have an understanding of her needs and over time be able to find out what is really bugging her.
If this comes as a complete shock to you, then IMHO you've been quite blind to your wife's needs for a long time and you've been ignoring glaring signs that the flame has been flickering for some time. None of my business, but I'd find it hard to believe you're still making mad passionate love daily or at least weekly and your wife suddenly says she no longer loves you.
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Face the facts, some women are just no good no mater what That's why the boys started this club way back... ![[Linked Image]](http://s24.postimg.org/y360u1439/image.jpg)
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I give up what is netti potting the dark roast?
I like to do my hunting BEFORE I pull the trigger!
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You'll find out on the hog hunt!
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You'll find out on the hog hunt! Too fuggin' funny... GFY. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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But, less money more time can be the winner sometimes..... and, as someone pointed out, another woman might be advising all the correction she could be making to 'get what she deserves from life" (and perhaps 'find herself') whatever that means. I fail to see how spending more time together could improve a relationship. Travis Perhaps you also fail to realize that women think different than men then?  (Go back a page or three and see how Miss Lynn has failed at the 'men's intuition' thing and you see a clear demonstration of it; they got their own intuition I guess they like to say - sometimes with a superior air- but that doesn't mean they understand guys any better than we understand them.) Lott is saying pretty much the same stuff I think. Having this stuff figured out is not an 'end' one ever reaches IMO. It's a day to day thing and you need to be on your game to keep your head above water. That's not saying you'll ever understand 'em though.
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Godspeed. Something doesn't seem right here for sure.
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But, less money more time can be the winner sometimes..... and, as someone pointed out, another woman might be advising all the correction she could be making to 'get what she deserves from life" (and perhaps 'find herself') whatever that means. I fail to see how spending more time together could improve a relationship. Travis Perhaps you also fail to realize that women think different than men then? (Go back a page or three and see how Miss Lynn has failed at the 'men's intuition' thing and you see a clear demonstration of it; they got their own intuition I guess they like to say - sometimes with a superior air- but that doesn't mean they understand guys any better than we understand them.) Lott is saying pretty much the same stuff I think. Having this stuff figured out is not an 'end' one ever reaches IMO. It's a day to day thing and you need to be on your game to keep your head above water. That's not saying you'll ever understand 'em though. But women are stupid. So there's no point in considering any of that. Some of you people have a lot to learn. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Put JESUS in the center of the marriage. He's the only one that can heal it. Everything else is just a band-aid. : )
\ I don't think suggesting a threesome is going to help the situation. I just peed a lil'.
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Put JESUS in the center of the marriage. He's the only one that can heal it. Everything else is just a band-aid. : )
\ I don't think suggesting a threesome is going to help the situation. At this point what do you have to loose? After the divorce, I found they weren't that hard to come by if you were looking though.
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Give her a dvd of the movie Fireproof. Ask her to watch it and let you know when she has. If she doesn't watch it or watches it and shrugs her shoulders run like a greyhound, get the attorney and take care of the kids.
Hmmm... Perhaps, yet I would substitute for the movie The Dirty Dozen and look for said reactions.
Epstein didn't kill himself.
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With 4 kids find a good professional that won't leave a trail and have the bitch killed. Otherwise you're DONE financially and headed for certain ruin.
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With 4 kids find a good professional that won't leave a trail and have the bitch killed. Otherwise you're DONE financially and headed for certain ruin. Idiot!
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Well fugg!
Are we gonna watch Fireproof or do I need to kill a bitch!?!?!
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Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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With 4 kids find a good professional that won't leave a trail and have the bitch killed. Otherwise you're DONE financially and headed for certain ruin. Idiot! Fugg you azzhole, I've been through this a time or two. They're all replaceable and all gold diggers. If you think otherwise it is tuly you who is the idiot.
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With 4 kids find a good professional that won't leave a trail and have the bitch killed. Otherwise you're DONE financially and headed for certain ruin. But be real quite about it, go to the public library and do a search for "trail less hit man", and pay him in cash, don't try and use your mac card, the cops always check for that. Don't use Travis, he talks to much!
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