This dude tells the truth to single women aged late 30's into their 40s and beyond. He says no matter how successful you are, you're not likely to get the man of your dreams. Women only date men equal to or above education AND earnings. That cuts the pool of possibilities by a bunch. Guys that are the same age that have the education and money are out dating younger, hotter chicks. They are more attractive, probably don't have have kids in tow, are more fertile, and are more desirable.
Cold truth girls - if you are late 30s early 40s and beyond, the prize catch men are with the 28 year old hottie. You have already hit your hottie "sell by date". No matter how smoking hot you were at 25, you're not that anymore, and just like in Hollywood, the next, younger beauty is there to replace you.
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
Not true. Alot of women need someone they want to "fix." You see them out all the time, a respectable looking woman with a descent job shacked up with some guy who still dresses like he did in high-school in the 90's.
Any woman will tell you that a good man is hard to find. Many have given up. Wifey is the only one of her friends and old school friends that is married.
Not true. Alot of women need someone they want to "fix." You see them out all the time, a respectable looking woman with a descent job shacked up with some guy who still dresses like he did in high-school in the 90's.
I agree with the main points of the video, but this is also true. Many women see a man with problems, and they think that their "love" can fix him. The damaged man will be just fine after she changes him. But, he never changes.
Any woman will tell you that a good man is hard to find. Many have given up. Wifey is the only one of her friends and old school friends that is married.
Behind every broken/crappy man is the woman that created him...
Any woman will tell you that a good man is hard to find. Many have given up. Wifey is the only one of her friends and old school friends that is married.
Behind every broken/crappy man is the woman that created him...
I 've seen that guys You Tube channel,he makes alot of sense for dealing with women/dating in this day and age.I 'm glad i'm married to a good woman and don't have to be out there looking and dealing with a bunch of nut jobs.
See that gorgeous 28 year old woman? She wants to date me, but she doesn't make enough money and drives an older car, so I'm not interested. Said no man in history.
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
I was on match.com nine years ago. Most of the women were indeed looking for a catch: professional, money, etc etc. The one that caught me was looking for a happy life. So far, so good.
I 've seen that guys You Tube channel,he makes alot of sense for dealing with women/dating in this day and age.I 'm glad i'm married to a good woman and don't have to be out there looking and dealing with a bunch of nut jobs.
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
And which one of you makes more money? And if she makes more than you, what does she look like?
truth, but when I was young, I was dating those older women because they had jobs and money and didn't mind spending it on me.
Men's interest in a woman's money is inversely related to his own income. When you're young an broke you don't mind banging a sugar mama for cool toys.
When you have your own money why put up with the attitude that comes with hers?
This dude tells the truth to single women aged late 30's into their 40s and beyond. He says no matter how successful you are, you're not likely to get the man of your dreams. Women only date men equal to or above education AND earnings. That cuts the pool of possibilities by a bunch. Guys that are the same age that have the education and money are out dating younger, hotter chicks. They are more attractive, probably don't have have kids in tow, are more fertile, and are more desirable.
Cold truth girls - if you are late 30s early 40s and beyond, the prize catch men are with the 28 year old hottie. You have already hit your hottie "sell by date". No matter how smoking hot you were at 25, you're not that anymore, and just like in Hollywood, the next, younger beauty is there to replace you.
And everyone of you should buy his book even if you're married. It's a good "Red Pill" primer.
Married my bride 41 years ago this July. I was 21 and she was 19. Neither of us have a degree. Just a high school diploma. We’ve done ok for a couple of hillbilly kids from the south end of Columbus Ohio. Raised 2 adult kids with degrees (a school teacher and an Aerospace engineer) who have given us 3 wonderful grandkids. My wife is the best wife, mother, and grandmother ever. Totally selfless woman who always puts others above herself. Doesn’t care if I go hunting or shooting. Doesn’t bitch about me spending money On guns. I wouldn’t trade her for any woman, big earner or not. We’re not extravagant people. Are perfectly happy at home with family. Don’t need or want to travel to Europe or Cancun. We have worked hard for everything we have though. She’s always been right by my side through thick and thin.
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
Any woman will tell you that a good man is hard to find. Many have given up. Wifey is the only one of her friends and old school friends that is married.
Behind every broken/crappy man is the woman that created him...
Any woman will tell you that a good man is hard to find. Many have given up. Wifey is the only one of her friends and old school friends that is married.
Behind every broken/crappy man is the woman that created him...
Horseshit.
Go look at the data on kids raised by single mothers. There's more truth in that statement than you'd like to believe.
You keep marrying on appearance and age alone and you will continue to support the data.
Amber Heard and Jada Pinkett Smith aren't exceptions - the world is full of women who treat guys the same way, create a guy who says "you know what? F them, they just F me so from now on, screw them before they screw me"
Was more my point. A lot of guy's attitudes towards women are created by the way women treat guys. Guys they date, guys they don't. Men don't have "friend zones" - women do etc.
Get divorced and have some chick take you to the cleaners simply because she's a chick and you realize why dudes get abrasive about women. I paid every cent of my child support, on time, and usually more than full (I paid for things I wasn't required to) and yet the courts and females continues to bleed you dry - I don't condone it but I definitely UNDERSTAND why dudes skip out on women.
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
And which one of you makes more money? And if she makes more than you, what does she look like?
I have a BS and a masters, but my wife has a BS, MBA, PhD, is a CMA and a CPA (licensed to practice in multiple states.) I have a modest pension and SS. She makes, essentially, as much as she wants. Her regular, 9 months of the year, "day job" income is about 4 times my income. She does as much consulting and developmental work as she want to for which her hourly rate can be north of $500, depending on the nature of the job. She's 17 years younger than I and, like most of the women in her family, is an absolutely gorgeous, blue-eyed blonde. If you were to go to our little hometown and ask around town who the most beautiful girl to ever come out of that town was, she'd be the first one a lot of people would mention. In terms of financial resources/capital, she brought a lot more to this marriage than I did.
If you look at relationships in terms of your two questions above, I don't expect you'll ever understand.
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
Sounds like a good catch. I'm betting you hooked up when you were young, and definitely not when she was in her 40s?
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
Sounds like a good catch. I'm betting you hooked up when you were young, and definitely not when she was in her 40s?
She was 20, I was 30, told her I was too old. Poor girl wouldn’t listen.
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
And which one of you makes more money? And if she makes more than you, what does she look like?
I have a BS and a masters, but my wife has a BS, MBA, PhD, is a CMA and a CPA (licensed to practice in multiple states.) I have a modest pension and SS. She makes, essentially, as much as she wants. Her regular, 9 months of the year, "day job" income is about 4 times my income. She does as much consulting and developmental work as she want to for which her hourly rate can be north of $500, depending on the nature of the job. She's 17 years younger than I and, like most of the women in her family, is an absolutely gorgeous, blue-eyed blonde. If you were to go to our little hometown and ask around town who the most beautiful girl to ever come out of that town was, she'd be the first one a lot of people would mention. In terms of financial resources/capital, she brought a lot more to this marriage than I did.
If you look at relationships in terms of your two questions above, I don't expect you'll ever understand.
Craig, Understand I'm not proscribing how the world should be I'm describing how it is. Perhaps your wife's the exceptions, maybe she's not.
As Rich said in the video, women are hypergamous. In other words they tend to marry men of equal or higher social status and earnings. Studies very but in general, in order for women to find a man "economically attractive" he needs to make 25% to 60% more than her. The more egalitarian the country the more the man has to make. So the U.S comes in around 47% but Norway and Sweden are closer to 60%. One of the most reliable predictors of divorce is when a woman begins making more money than her husband. I worked at a company where 5 young ladies were all promoted to junior management at the same time. Within a year they had all divorced their blue collar husbands. There's larger studies confirming this behavior. This behavior is exacerbated when women have degree's. In Marriage where the wife has a degree, 90% of divorces are filed by the wife.
Of course this doesn't always happen. When we look at large multi factor studies that attempt to predict marital happiness, there's only a few variable that stick out and these tend to be related to emotional stability, especially the mental an emotional stability of the woman. When you consider (depending on the study) 70%-80% of all divorces are filed by women, and the number one reason they give is "I'm unhappy", you can imagine why that matters.
As for the question, is your wife the exception, you have a couple factors in your favor. You mentioned "our little hometown", so you are removed from the competition and craziness of the big city, and Accountants tend to be more emotionally stable that average. You didn't say how old she is, so I don't know if you've survived her Mid-Life Crisis and her "Alpha re-Interest" phase, which typically occurs around the ages of 37 and 45 when they body tells them they have one last chance to diversify the paternity of their offspring before they hit menopause. About 50% happen at this time, so if you've already survived this, she's past 50 and well into the the downhill side of her SMV (Sexual Market Place Value), perhaps you did find the unicorn. But even if you make it past this marker, the longest study I've found on first marriage was a 40 year study, and over it's course, 67% resulted in divorce.
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
If she is that smart, does she know how much porn you post on the campfire?
I’d never marry a woman who made more than I. I’d never marry a woman taller than me, or who could kick my ass either.
If kids are off the table, then maybe? But with kids in the picture no friggin way. Besides, how could she be a mother if she’s out working all day? (Hint she can’t)
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
I worked at a place where a bunch of women were hired. They made good money and didnt need a husband Consequently it was not uncommon for one to marry four or five times.
Lots of guys did it too. Cheat on spouse but claim this one is different. Laughed my ass off when they acted all butthurt when they ended up divorced from the new wife....because she was banging somebody else.
No sympathy from me.
One of my dads buds dumped his wife of many yrs for some gal that had been married 4 times. She cleaned him out and divorced him. He had nothing and his ex took him in.
A divorced woman across the street asked me , " what's the difference between a man and a catfish"? One is a bottom feeding scum sucker ,, and the other is just a fish. As for us, we have 35 yrs. in next month. We are total opposites. There are two things we had in common and 20 that are not at all the same. One is, we are both christians, the other thing in common , she thought I was really good looking, and she was a little blue eyed blonde with hair half down her back. . We decided we should have never gotten married but we actually do ok .
I’d never marry a woman who made more than I. I’d never marry a woman taller than me, or who could kick my ass either.
If kids are off the table, then maybe? But with kids in the picture no friggin way. Besides, how could she be a mother if she’s out working all day? (Hint she can’t)
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
And which one of you makes more money? And if she makes more than you, what does she look like?
I have a BS and a masters, but my wife has a BS, MBA, PhD, is a CMA and a CPA (licensed to practice in multiple states.) I have a modest pension and SS. She makes, essentially, as much as she wants. Her regular, 9 months of the year, "day job" income is about 4 times my income. She does as much consulting and developmental work as she want to for which her hourly rate can be north of $500, depending on the nature of the job. She's 17 years younger than I and, like most of the women in her family, is an absolutely gorgeous, blue-eyed blonde. If you were to go to our little hometown and ask around town who the most beautiful girl to ever come out of that town was, she'd be the first one a lot of people would mention. In terms of financial resources/capital, she brought a lot more to this marriage than I did.
If you look at relationships in terms of your two questions above, I don't expect you'll ever understand.
Craig, Understand I'm not proscribing how the world should be I'm describing how it is. Perhaps your wife's the exceptions, maybe she's not.
As Rich said in the video, women are hypergamous. In other words they tend to marry men of equal or higher social status and earnings. Studies very but in general, in order for women to find a man "economically attractive" he needs to make 25% to 60% more than her. The more egalitarian the country the more the man has to make. So the U.S comes in around 47% but Norway and Sweden are closer to 60%. One of the most reliable predictors of divorce is when a woman begins making more money than her husband. I worked at a company where 5 young ladies were all promoted to junior management at the same time. Within a year they had all divorced their blue collar husbands. There's larger studies confirming this behavior. This behavior is exacerbated when women have degree's. In Marriage where the wife has a degree, 90% of divorces are filed by the wife.
Of course this doesn't always happen. When we look at large multi factor studies that attempt to predict marital happiness, there's only a few variable that stick out and these tend to be related to emotional stability, especially the mental an emotional stability of the woman. When you consider (depending on the study) 70%-80% of all divorces are filed by women, and the number one reason they give is "I'm unhappy", you can imagine why that matters.
As for the question, is your wife the exception, you have a couple factors in your favor. You mentioned "our little hometown", so you are removed from the competition and craziness of the big city, and Accountants tend to be more emotionally stable that average. You didn't say how old she is, so I don't know if you've survived her Mid-Life Crisis and her "Alpha re-Interest" phase, which typically occurs around the ages of 37 and 45 when they body tells them they have one last chance to diversify the paternity of their offspring before they hit menopause. About 50% happen at this time, so if you've already survived this, she's past 50 and well into the the downhill side of her SMV (Sexual Market Place Value), perhaps you did find the unicorn. But even if you make it past this marker, the longest study I've found on first marriage was a 40 year study, and over it's course, 67% resulted in divorce.
Wifey is a mechanical engineer, way the hell smarter than me. I don’t see why in the hell she married me, but she knows where I am, I don’t chase other women. I don’t go out drinking like her Dad was known to do. I always kept a job. She says I made her laugh from the minute I met her and I like dancing her ass off.
She says I’m steady, guess that means I ain’t too exciting
If she is that smart, does she know how much porn you post on the campfire?
I’d never marry a woman who made more than I. I’d never marry a woman taller than me, or who could kick my ass either.
If kids are off the table, then maybe? But with kids in the picture no friggin way. Besides, how could she be a mother if she’s out working all day? (Hint she can’t)
My old lady has never had to work, it's been hard but my kids turned out great.
My wife and I married at 35, and she has two degrees. One is a BSc in zoology, and the other is a DVM - doctor of Veterinary Medicine. 36 years later we still are in love. She is a peach.
And which one of you makes more money? And if she makes more than you, what does she look like?
I have a BS and a masters, but my wife has a BS, MBA, PhD, is a CMA and a CPA (licensed to practice in multiple states.) I have a modest pension and SS. She makes, essentially, as much as she wants. Her regular, 9 months of the year, "day job" income is about 4 times my income. She does as much consulting and developmental work as she want to for which her hourly rate can be north of $500, depending on the nature of the job. She's 17 years younger than I and, like most of the women in her family, is an absolutely gorgeous, blue-eyed blonde. If you were to go to our little hometown and ask around town who the most beautiful girl to ever come out of that town was, she'd be the first one a lot of people would mention. In terms of financial resources/capital, she brought a lot more to this marriage than I did.
If you look at relationships in terms of your two questions above, I don't expect you'll ever understand.
Craig, Understand I'm not proscribing how the world should be I'm describing how it is. Perhaps your wife's the exceptions, maybe she's not.
As Rich said in the video, women are hypergamous. In other words they tend to marry men of equal or higher social status and earnings. Studies very but in general, in order for women to find a man "economically attractive" he needs to make 25% to 60% more than her. The more egalitarian the country the more the man has to make. So the U.S comes in around 47% but Norway and Sweden are closer to 60%. One of the most reliable predictors of divorce is when a woman begins making more money than her husband. I worked at a company where 5 young ladies were all promoted to junior management at the same time. Within a year they had all divorced their blue collar husbands. There's larger studies confirming this behavior. This behavior is exacerbated when women have degree's. In Marriage where the wife has a degree, 90% of divorces are filed by the wife.
Of course this doesn't always happen. When we look at large multi factor studies that attempt to predict marital happiness, there's only a few variable that stick out and these tend to be related to emotional stability, especially the mental an emotional stability of the woman. When you consider (depending on the study) 70%-80% of all divorces are filed by women, and the number one reason they give is "I'm unhappy", you can imagine why that matters.
As for the question, is your wife the exception, you have a couple factors in your favor. You mentioned "our little hometown", so you are removed from the competition and craziness of the big city, and Accountants tend to be more emotionally stable that average. You didn't say how old she is, so I don't know if you've survived her Mid-Life Crisis and her "Alpha re-Interest" phase, which typically occurs around the ages of 37 and 45 when they body tells them they have one last chance to diversify the paternity of their offspring before they hit menopause. About 50% happen at this time, so if you've already survived this, she's past 50 and well into the the downhill side of her SMV (Sexual Market Place Value), perhaps you did find the unicorn. But even if you make it past this marker, the longest study I've found on first marriage was a 40 year study, and over it's course, 67% resulted in divorce.
I have this crazy idea that marriage is about giving and selflessness and trust, and putting other’s before oneself based upon a promise made before God, vows.
I have this crazy idea that marriage is about giving and selflessness and trust, and putting other’s before oneself based upon a promise made before God, vows.
I agree. The other day my wife told me, "Having you is like you buy something and bring it home and discover its value is 10X what you paid for it." I think it was a compliment.
I have this crazy idea that marriage is about giving and selflessness and trust, and putting other’s before oneself based upon a promise made before God, vows.
I have this crazy idea that marriage is about giving and selflessness and trust, and putting other’s before oneself based upon a promise made before God, vows.
I agree. The other day my wife told me, "Having you is like you buy something and bring it home and discover its value is 10X what you paid for it." I think it was a compliment.
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
The following opinion excludes one's mother of course: 1. The best one you will ever meet (and probably marry) is a pain in the ass 2. If they didn't have a hole (or two), there would be a bounty out on them
Happily married for 41 years to one of the most gorgeous women on the planet..
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
My wife has 9 degrees, she's the most beautiful woman in the world, we've never had an argument, she's the greatest mother on the planet, why she ever married me god only knows. We have a great life we're both retired in our big paid for mansion We love my kids and grandkids we spoil them
You missed out on makeup sex
That only applies if you admit YOU were wrong. So I've been told.
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