If he's wanting something really special, it might be a good thing to go with a Hartford in 44-77, the rifle and cartridge that started the road to fame for the Sharps rifle co.
Cases are readily available from Captec, bullet moulds are easily had from Buffalo Arms, Brooks, and Accurate moulds.

the most expensive bullet there is isn't worth a plug nickel if it don't go where its supposed to.
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