Bigfish9684: Move to Montana - you would be 100 times better off there than you have been in Bothell, Washington!
I moved out of Bellevue, Washington area (where I was born and raised and lived all my life until I moved to Montana 19 years ago) and that was THE single BEST decision I have ever made in my life!
Don't delay - move immediately.
The Puget Sound area has become SO repulsive in every way I hate to even go visit my elderly mother thereabouts.
Good luck to you where ever you go - just MOVE!
For your own health, safety and enjoyment of life.
Hold into the wind
VarmintGuy