I like a soft come hither mewing tone. I call different than most of my pards and I strive to avoid higher pitched notes,that in my mind,connotate a sense of peril.
So I call gently,in a sorta "me soooooo horny" way. That as opposed to "I'm getting my guts chewed outta me by Wolves" way.
There'd be a difference.................(grin)