Divorce is the bane of a civilized society and enforcement of religious views on an otherwise co-joined and twisted legal /judicial system. No divorce is something your never able to forget , in that since it's never over .
NZ is one of the few countries that has dual citizenship with the US. In part due to the numbers that immigrated here from the US after the gold rush in the 1850's and the numbers of wives taken from the military during WW-2. I personal know several that were married from that era.
Mitchell