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The difference between "satisfied" and "contented."
Anybody know???
Well, I'll tell ya.
If you were satisfied that your woman was steppin out on ya, would you be contented??
Personally, I would stay out of it. Years ago I told my best friends wife about him carryin' on with a gal and they both hated me. She said ignorance was bliss and had I not told her she would have never known. So I was the villain. Let them sort it out. Now that takes the cake.
EVERYBODY is pro-gun, some just don't know it. When an anti-gun person is in trouble, the first thing they do is call 911 and demand that they send somebody with a gun!
"Turdlike".... in record time
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Travis, I'm twice your age and I've played all three MALE parts in this little drama at one time or the other.I've been in OKOK's shoes, his buddy's shoes, and I've been the guy across the table from the wife.I've played some of 'em more than once.
In EVERY instance the husband came out ahead when the buddy kept his info and suspicion [that's all OKOK has at this point] of infidelity to himself.
An old Black friend gave me this advice when I was pondering what to do about a situation similar to this, one time.It costs you what it cost me:
"Travis, ask yourself this question; Do I REALLY need any more complications in my life RIGHT NOW"? I could give two [bleep] what complications a guy could handle in his life "right now." If a chick you are committed to is sweet on another cock, you want that information. And if you don't? You are a [bleep] chump and do not rate my friendship. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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18 years?!?! Holy [bleep]! You have a "friend" for two decades and you don't want to tell him the hatchet wound he munches on has been slayed by Mandingo?
How do you come up with this..? It's like a "Gift", you should write for Hallmark...have your own line of GFY cards... I applied. They replied: "GFY" Talk about irony! Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Travis, I'm twice your age and I've played all three MALE parts in this little drama at one time or the other.I've been in OKOK's shoes, his buddy's shoes, and I've been the guy across the table from the wife.I've played some of 'em more than once.
In EVERY instance the husband came out ahead when the buddy kept his info and suspicion [that's all OKOK has at this point] of infidelity to himself.
An old Black friend gave me this advice when I was pondering what to do about a situation similar to this, one time.It costs you what it cost me:
"Travis, ask yourself this question; Do I REALLY need any more complications in my life RIGHT NOW"? I'll add this ... I had a bud in high school tell me that he saw my GF making out with a guy at work. I broke up with her was glad that he told me. I was staying with acquaintances, not friends, and caught wind of the wife cheating. I kept my mouth shut and AFAIK they stayed together for years after that. If I found out one of my best friend's spouses were cheating, I'd confront her. I was best man at both of their weddings and their wives are my best friends too ... just in a different way. So ... I have difficult time determining what's the best way to go.
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Sorry bud, I'm calling drama thread here,,,
Women on the loose don't sit in coffee shops displaying public affection to the "ski instructor" in their home town...
Not buying it...... I have the same inclination but the scenario and question posed remains the same. And GFY. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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�Politicians are the lowest form of life on earth. Liberal Democrats are the lowest form of politician.� �General George S. Patton, Jr.
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It's like this,..
If ya tell him, he'll feel obligated to end the relationship right now.
If you don't,..it'll go on for 3 or 4 more months before it peters out.
Tellin' him now will deprive him of 3 or 4 months of that all important commodity known as puzzy.
The situation will find its correct path without your help. Mental note: Bristoe and okok are schitty best friends. Travis Getting involved in the complications of somebody else's relationship is for women and boys. Us older guys have the wisdom to live in our own world. It's a good place to be.
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Travis,
GFY = Good Friends Yeah !!!
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"Often wrong,never in doubt". That pretty much described me at 35, too. 
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Travis, I'm twice your age and I've played all three MALE parts in this little drama at one time or the other.I've been in OKOK's shoes, his buddy's shoes, and I've been the guy across the table from the wife.I've played some of 'em more than once.
In EVERY instance the husband came out ahead when the buddy kept his info and suspicion [that's all OKOK has at this point] of infidelity to himself.
An old Black friend gave me this advice when I was pondering what to do about a situation similar to this, one time.It costs you what it cost me:
"Travis, ask yourself this question; Do I REALLY need any more complications in my life RIGHT NOW"? I could give two [bleep] what complications a guy could handle in his life "right now." If a chick you are committed to is sweet on another cock, you want that information. And if you don't? You are a [bleep] chump and do not rate my friendship. Travis Exactly 1000% right.. Taking the easy way out is the "I don't want the complication" because it is easy for them. And therefore they are not a true friend. They will always do what is easiest and most convenient for them, and not doing what is right. My true friends in my life, I would walk through fire for them And I have. And they have for me.
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18 years?!?! Holy [bleep]! You have a "friend" for two decades and you don't want to tell him the hatchet wound he munches on has been slayed by Mandingo?
How do you come up with this..? It's like a "Gift", you should write for Hallmark...have your own line of GFY cards... That is it! This is how you should tell him. Give him a card that says "sorry the hatchet wound you have been munching on has been slayed by Mandingo."Just place it on the counter before you leave.  Haven't laughed that hard in awhile! Nothing like some bullschit like this to ruin a perfectly good fishing trip! Good luck!
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"Often wrong,never in doubt". That pretty much described me at 35, too. Wisdom often speaks in a crackly old voice. fish head circa 2013
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"Years ago I told my best friends wife about him carryin' on with a gal".
DAMN........... just DAMN.
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Getting involved in the complications of somebody else's relationship is for women and boys.
Us older guys have the wisdom to live in our own world.
It's a good place to be.
Know you're right, and go forward. But you're obviously a pacifist and a puzzy, and a worthless friend. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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"Often wrong,never in doubt". That pretty much described me at 35, too. Worthless friend. Got it. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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"Years ago I told my best friends wife about him carryin' on with a gal".
DAMN........... just DAMN. That's something I couldn't do. I've been blackmailing one of my best buds for over thirty years with my knowledge of his infidelities ... prior to when they got married. I'm sworn to secrecy but it comes at a cost.
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"Often wrong,never in doubt". That pretty much described me at 35, too. Wisdom often speaks in a crackly old voice. fish head circa 2013 Wisdom doesn't have an age. Neither does being a puzzy. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Getting involved in the complications of somebody else's relationship is for women and boys.
Us older guys have the wisdom to live in our own world.
It's a good place to be.
Know you're right, and go forward. But you're obviously a pacifist and a puzzy, and a worthless friend. Travis And you're the white male Oprah. I've never heard so much snivellin' crap out of a bunch of males. Reading through this thread is like being in 8th grade again.
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A divorce attorney can subpoena the footage, also check her passport for recent travel documentation.
Gunner Pointless, it's a no fault state...went through something similar stay out of it...
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"Often wrong,never in doubt". That pretty much described me at 35, too. Wisdom often speaks in a crackly old voice. fish head circa 2013 Wisdom doesn't have an age. Neither does being a puzzy. Travis
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