Wow. Lots of advice here. To get a little back on track.... -Detach yourself emotionally from the woman. (No longer your wife. Just a female trying to screw you) -Hire the BEST attorney you can find. -Forget about her feelings. -File for divorce ASAP to put the ball in your court even if things turn around. -DON'T get the kids involved if possible. -Forget about what she wants. -Don't have sex with said woman until court is settled. -Most importantly, stay cool and run everything you do through your attorney.
This is all from hard earned lessons I have learned.
Every stinkin sheep I've tried to pin has kicked the crap out of me. What am I doing wrong? P.S. I've watched the Muslim/goat love video, but still no luck. Maybe I need infra-red? I think I lack the whole "can-do" attitude. Please advise from Montana.
your just not horn-dog enough yet. when you get there,dont matter what they smell like. but,Im not from Montana so Im not an expert like Travis.
********************** [the member formerly known as fluffy}
It's unfortunate but your situation it appears you have nothing to gain and everything to lose? I hope you consult with a decent family lawyer that will help protect your rights and assets ASAP!!
Keep the kids out of adult matters! Be the best parent you can be. Take care of yourself, stay on a schedule, keep busy, exercise, ect. Don't start "hitting" the bottle either.
NO, I'm not dead. I am enjoying all the good reads. You have all helped me "Man Up" and realize what needs to happen. Found out one of my "wrongs" I am a field service engineer------travel 500-1100 miles a week.2 years ago my trusty Tahoe with 198K miles started to act up. It was one thing after another. I missed several days of work fixing this car. Mean while its summer, and wife and kids are at her family camp in the national forest (she just takes off and goes for a week or 2 at any given time) as she has unlimited vacation time. while talking to her at camp, she asked "what have you been doing" I said fixing the dam Tahoe and shopping for a new--used car for work. (very important for me to have a reliable ride!)so by the end of the week I find a sweet deal on a 1 year old Toy. Camry 30k miles for $15500. So i buy it. The weekend comes and I head up to camp and visit the wife and kids in my new Camry. Apparently , I did this "behind he back"????? and she was furious. Told her--- needed a reliable car--or not be able to drive to work.???? she has brought this up several times and I keep telling her that it wasn't behind her back and since it was for work(i get a monthly car allowance) she should have been cool with that. So tell me how I played that one wrong??
NO, I'm not dead. I am enjoying all the good reads. You have all helped me "Man Up" and realize what needs to happen. Found out one of my "wrongs" I am a field service engineer------travel 500-1100 miles a week.2 years ago my trusty Tahoe with 198K miles started to act up. It was one thing after another. I missed several days of work fixing this car. Mean while its summer, and wife and kids are at her family camp in the national forest (she just takes off and goes for a week or 2 at any given time) as she has unlimited vacation time. while talking to her at camp, she asked "what have you been doing" I said fixing the dam Tahoe and shopping for a new--used car for work. (very important for me to have a reliable ride!)so by the end of the week I find a sweet deal on a 1 year old Toy. Camry 30k miles for $15500. So i buy it. The weekend comes and I head up to camp and visit the wife and kids in my new Camry. Apparently , I did this "behind he back"????? and she was furious. Told her--- needed a reliable car--or not be able to drive to work.???? she has brought this up several times and I keep telling her that it wasn't behind her back and since it was for work(i get a monthly car allowance) she should have been cool with that. So tell me how I played that one wrong??
She's hiding a boyfriend and almost got caught.
_______________________________________________________ An 8 dollar driveway boy living in a T-111 shack
No, Samolsen, never stepped out of line. She says the main problem is/was that I never made her feel like we were a team. I work 40-60 hours a week and she stayed home with the kids. I also took care of everything inside/outside the house.I fix everything...cars, tractors,washers..ect... So I ask her if what I do is NOT 50% what the heck is???????? I never said the word NO to her, If she didn't feel like cooking,, pizza was always ok with me, I just dont know. Church on every sunday, other friends or family think were are the perfect family.
as an outsider with only a small piece of it all, it seems she's shallow, spoiled & bored... & Facebooking.
Originally Posted by Archerhunter
Quit giving in inch by inch then looking back to lament the mile behind ya and wonder how to preserve those few feet left in front of ya. They'll never stop until they're stopped. That's a fact.
If thats a wrong, Id hate to see a right, birddog.
Sounds like a "crime of convenience" to her about you.
Theyll latch on to anything, partner. And when the hen friends get together and talk, they'll make every minor offense out to be the straw that broke the camels back, and convince themselves that those minor offenses fit a pattern of dysfunction.
I was once presented with a 3 page list of all my faults against a mate.
Mind blowing.
Sounds like you gave her everything, and she just grew bored and ungrateful.
Stop kicking yourself. You couldn't control that. Not even if your azz shat gold coins on command.
Last edited by WillARights; 01/21/15.
Trump HAD the World, ", Trump saw our children, " Trump saw a way to make a brighter day so he started giving There was a choice he was making, he was saving our own lives Its true he made a brighter day for you and me. --Trump WINS 2016
Quit giving in inch by inch then looking back to lament the mile behind ya and wonder how to preserve those few feet left in front of ya. They'll never stop until they're stopped. That's a fact.
Ya, i never kept score. Just worked on it, or went through and over it.
Last edited by WillARights; 01/21/15.
Trump HAD the World, ", Trump saw our children, " Trump saw a way to make a brighter day so he started giving There was a choice he was making, he was saving our own lives Its true he made a brighter day for you and me. --Trump WINS 2016
![[Linked Image]](http://www.drfunkenberry.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/randy.jpg)
![[Linked Image]](http://i1290.photobucket.com/albums/b531/muzzle-blast/misselizabeth2_zps3b6c20d4.jpg)
