i just made my old lady go get my decoys out of the storage room.
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Tawd- If it's got seeds from her Big Mac all over it, it is definitely a used car now. You can only hope she gets the shift knob stuck in her dark roast. Get a new fat girl, buy her a new red car, and have her try your Whopper. If you put some onion on it, it will bring tears to her eyes. Hopefully Big Mac will marry your last fat girl in the meantime.
dont you guys think that I need to see what happens at the marriage counselor before i get a lawyer??
Here's a hint. Your wife is leaving you because you don't listen. You don't pay attention to good advice, notice detail, or comprehend nuance... As a result, some other dude is now fraught with polishing your wife's Rusty Sheriff's Badge.
My two cents... 1. Get a lawyer 2. Open new checking account (ind) have your paycheck direct deposit to that account. 3. Tell her to find her own place.
Tawd- If it's got seeds from her Big Mac all over it, it is definitely a used car now. You can only hope she gets the shift knob stuck in her dark roast. Get a new fat girl, buy her a new red car, and have her try your Whopper. If you put some onion on it, it will bring tears to her eyes. Hopefully Big Mac will marry your last fat girl in the meantime.
dont you guys think that I need to see what happens at the marriage counselor before i get a lawyer??
Here's a hint. Your wife is leaving you because you don't listen. You don't pay attention to good advice, notice detail, or comprehend nuance... As a result, some other dude is now fraught with polishing your wife's Rusty Sheriff's Badge.
My two cents... 1. Get a lawyer 2. Open new checking account (ind) have your paycheck direct deposit to that account. 3. Tell her to find her own place. 4. More Steve Buscemi!
dont you guys think that I need to see what happens at the marriage counselor before i get a lawyer??
Here's a hint. Your wife is leaving you because you don't listen. You don't pay attention to good advice, notice detail, or comprehend nuance... As a result, some other dude is now fraught with polishing your wife's Rusty Sheriff's Badge.
Do you comprehend that?
No, his wife is leaving him because she's an ignorant, self-centered psycho-biatch because there are minor children involved, and she's only concerned about herself. If you think that is funny I'd say the above applies to your sorry azz as well.
Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around?????
You won't want to hear this, but the highest likelihood is that she's been sleeping around. The "I still care for you, but I don't love you anymore" line is code for "I'm really enjoying Billy's cock and I want to play with it some more, but I want to think I've gotten away with it".
Go through with the counseling, hire a pitbull of an attorney, and a private investigator.
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America needs to understand that our troops are not 'disposable'. Each represents a family; Fathers, Mothers, Sons, Daughters, Cousins, Uncles, Aunts... Our Citizens are our most valuable treasure; we waste far too many.
Nothing to add to the plethora of good, bad and ugly advice here, just a reminiscence of marriage counseling.
The whole point of counseling for my wife was so she could tell someone else what a sorry POS [bleep] I was, how everything was my fault and how she was perfect and blameless in all regards and then have that someone else say, "yes, of course you poor dear, you're absolutely right."
We went through three counselors before she found the one that would do that...
Gunnery, gunnery, gunnery. Hit the target, all else is twaddle!
Go through with the counseling, hire a pitbull of an attorney, and a private investigator.
Follow this advice ASAP or you will regret it and pay dearly. Your children's psychological, and economic well-being most likely hinge upon following this course. She apparently doesn't give two schidts about them, or is to blind/ignorant to her own desires to care about them.
Ding DinG Ding, Rooster7 is the winner of the best post and evaluation of my situation. I couldn't even explain my situation that good. I am going to print it , or take a picture of his post . I'm glad that I posted this thread, just to prove to myself that this is just crazy chit that can go on in someones life. Thank you, Rooster7
You're welcome. Hope everything works out for you.
So Rooster, the secret is to let her nag and raise hell and curse you and run you down and you just keep your mouth shut, hang your head and turn the other cheek?
Absolutely not! You need to find other ways to make her realize that she doesn't have it so bad. It took over a year to get back on track for us. We tried the marriage counselor (her idea) and after two sessions the counselor told HER she needed separate counseling. That PISSED her off to no end and we never went back to a counselor again. Next she took the kids and rented an apartment in town. After 2 weeks, she wanted to come back home and I said "NO WAY! You signed a 6 month lease, you're living there for 6 months!" I stuck to that and made her ride it out.
I'll tell you what, she has not pulled any of that crap ever since and that was over 3 years ago.
Through it all, we have learned to communicate much better and on the rare occasion when tempers do flare, we don't yell and we both choose our words very carefully.
Now with that said, if the OP's wife is having an affair none of what I've experienced may have much meaning. It's too late at that point unless he's willing to forgive her for it and that would be damn tough to do
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