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dont you guys think that I need to see what happens at the marriage counselor before i get a lawyer?? Here's a hint. Your wife is leaving you because you don't listen. You don't pay attention to good advice, notice detail, or comprehend nuance... As a result, some other dude is now fraught with polishing your wife's Rusty Sheriff's Badge. Do you comprehend that?  No, his wife is leaving him because she's an ignorant, self-centered psycho-biatch because there are minor children involved, and she's only concerned about herself. If you think that is funny I'd say the above applies to your sorry azz as well.  G-R-I-N Some can read sign. Some never miss it. Most never get to a first clue.
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Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around????? You won't want to hear this, but the highest likelihood is that she's been sleeping around. The "I still care for you, but I don't love you anymore" line is code for "I'm really enjoying Billy's cock and I want to play with it some more, but I want to think I've gotten away with it". Go through with the counseling, hire a pitbull of an attorney, and a private investigator. The other option is that it's not Billy's cock but Sally's clit. Hard for the kids to overlook a guy around the house at odd hours, but Mom's friend Sally... 
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I smell a train wreck.......
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Nothing to add to the plethora of good, bad and ugly advice here, just a reminiscence of marriage counseling.
The whole point of counseling for my wife was so she could tell someone else what a sorry POS [bleep] I was, how everything was my fault and how she was perfect and blameless in all regards and then have that someone else say, "yes, of course you poor dear, you're absolutely right."
We went through three counselors before she found the one that would do that... ^^^ THIS. Like I said, been there done that and Jim is ABSOLUTELY correct on this.
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I smell a train wreck....... I smell a couple years worth of Ramen noodles. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Through it all, we have learned to communicate much better and on the rare occasion when tempers do flare, we don't yell and we both choose our words very carefully.
She has you trained very well.
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Since we're back to our previous programming...
Birddog, I've been down that road too. You wil learn a tremendous amount in counseling. Out of an hour long session, 55 minutes of it will be her bringing up crap that happened, or might have happened, or was percieved to have happened 14 years ago. You will learn what a schmuck you've been everyday since. You won't remember any of this, (because normal people get over these things)so you'll be sitting there defenseless, with a stupid look on your face. If you have had any doubt up to this point how well prepared she is for this whole thing, this session should be enlightening. She's likely just as prepared legally. If you get to session two, that will likely cover year 13.
Good luck.
At least by waiting until Monday, you'll have time to schedule a few things.
Rent a backhoe for 9:30am. You'll want to dig a hole big enough for two by then.
Set up an appointment with an attorney before noon. A good one.
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Any one got Sally's picture?
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I smell a train wreck....... I smell a couple years worth of Ramen noodles. Travis If only someone had told him to talk to a lawyer. Poor fella.
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I smell a train wreck....... I smell a couple years worth of Ramen noodles. Travis I just spit coffee you phuucker!
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Dude, I've been there, about 4 years ago. Go to counseling if you want, right after you get a lawyer. Many here have been through it before. It's up to you if you listen or not.
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The women drag the men to counseling to get validation of their BS actions. Rooster you showed her you have some balls making her stay for 6 mo. You could have added, well now that you are gone, I don't have to listen to your BS when I want to go have a beer or go to gun shop. I kinda like it. Now if you want to come back it had better be on your knees and oh! while you are down there you better suck some and I will see if you are good enough to have back. Lol Women like to rule the roost and will if the guy is a puzzy. They want a man to take charge and not put up with their crap. It is a test to see if you are a man.
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Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around????? Emotional divorce---forwhatever reason---always, always precedes physical separation. If she is already emotionally divorced, it is highly unlikely you can change that. I'm sorry. Best of luck to you. Remember, there is always a silver lining behind every dark cloud. Jordan
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When I went to counseling the female counselor sided with me on 95% of the issues basically told her she was to blame for a large part of the problems(thats what a stray neti pot in the dark roast will do)
Told me after 3 sessions she is mentally off has borderline personality disorder and run fast and far from her
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As long as we're bringing up funny counseling stories, there's always the variations on this theme:
Her (imploring): "Tell me the truth, I want you to tell me how you really feel."
Him: "Well, I'm trying to spare your feelings..."
Her (more imploringly): "Really, all I want is the truth, I want you to tell me the absolute, honest truth."
Him: "You won't get mad?"
Her: "Honey, love of my life, how could I get mad at you for telling me the deepest and most honest feelings of your heart?"
Him: "...insert absolute truth here..."
Her: "HOW DARE YOU!! HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT!!! WHATEVER POSSESSED YOU TO SAY SUCH A CRUEL AND NASTY THING?! YOU SCUM!!!"
At least you get some entertainment for your $10,000....
Added: Now that I think about it, that's pretty much the way it goes any time she wants you to tell her the truth.
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Through it all, we have learned to communicate much better and on the rare occasion when tempers do flare, we don't yell and we both choose our words very carefully.
She has you trained very well. Quite the opposite actually  Life is too short to fight with the old lady. It's much better to stand up for what you know is right and let the small, petty bullshiit slide because it ain't ever going away as long as they have a vagina between their legs.
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Nothing to add to the plethora of good, bad and ugly advice here, just a reminiscence of marriage counseling.
The whole point of counseling for my wife was so she could tell someone else what a sorry POS [bleep] I was, how everything was my fault and how she was perfect and blameless in all regards and then have that someone else say, "yes, of course you poor dear, you're absolutely right."
We went through three counselors before she found the one that would do that... ^^^ THIS. Like I said, been there done that and Jim is ABSOLUTELY correct on this. Session one for me was her telling the counselor all the bad chit I did and said. When I told my side, counselor asked her what her problem was. I'm thinking this is going well... Session two - exact repeat of session one. Session three - repeat of one and two. Session four - repeat of previous three. She wants a new counselor and to keep on going. It was obvious she didn't want to fix anything and just wanted hang me with a couple of "issues" she was having. I said fuggit - I'm done...
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I just spit coffee you phuucker! You shouldn't be drinking coffee this late anyway. Dave
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I just spit coffee you phuucker! You shouldn't be drinking coffee this late anyway. Dave It's OK. It was French roast...
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When I went to counseling the female counselor sided with me on 95% of the issues basically told her she was to blame for a large part of the problems(thats what a stray neti pot in the dark roast will do)
Told me after 3 sessions she is mentally off has borderline personality disorder and run fast and far from her Exactly how mine went except the counselor didn't tell me to run (she didn't need to  )...
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