Here's the deal If you have not given her grounds for divorce and do not agree to a divorce There can be no divorce. No divorce equals no distribution of wealth Stay in your house Don't give her grounds Remain calm Tell her you do not want and will not agree to a divorce See what happens next.
That's a good joke.
All she needs to do it come up with a reason, it doesn't even have to be particularly good and in PA she can get a "fault" divorce. Courts aren't real high on forcing people to be together. Won't take much.
Or if even they won't give her one on fault - all she has to do is move out and in 2 years - granted a no-fault divorce in the state of PA, whether or not he wants one.
I still want this one. I want to kiss my kids goodnight and see them in the morning before school.I cant imagine a 50/50 split in time with my kids. Did I mention that they are just 13, 12, 9 and 6 years old, the ages that I cant miss out on. I dont know if I have what it takes to even go look for another woman. Right now when I look at a woman , its like that booze that got u so sick---- you dont want to look at it or even smell it, let alone drink it.
Dude - it's over. She's not coming back and it's up to you to make sure you don't miss out on your kids' lives while divorced. Guess what? That means less hunting along, means less work it means making a damned effort.
I know - divorced my wife when my son was 5 - 10 years ago. We talk every day. I am involved in his life - every day and he lives 50 miles away. It's a CHOICE and if you love your kids - you make it.
Bucking her on the divorce and making a big deal out of everything makes it more likely she bucks you on the kids and kid time.
Grow a damned pair, get a lawyer and end the marriage - nothing that happens will ever end your fatherhood, unless you're stupid during the divorce. A lawyer gets paid to keep you from being stupid.
So far, from what you've posted in the thread and ignored from those who FLIPPING KNOW - you NEED that lawyer to keep you from being stupid.
Snow storm cancelled the marriage counselor. I have been working a lot the last couple of days. Its now a weird situation, one day she acts like nothing even happened, the next day---- I'm smothering her?
That's translated as, "The other guy just called to flirt with me!".
Originally Posted by dvdegeorge
Did you get an attorney yet?
^ This!
FC
"Every day is a holiday, and every meal is a banquet."
Its now a weird situation, one day she acts like nothing even happened, the next day---- I'm smothering her? I am very confused.
Don't be confused.
She realizes that for whatever reason she is being selfish and wants you to grant her her freedom - so its "your choice" not hers, than it will always be "your" fault.
Originally Posted by birddog65
I still want this one.
probably not possible without her being on board - she ain't.
Originally Posted by birddog65
I want to kiss my kids goodnight and see them in the morning before school.I cant imagine a 50/50 split in time with my kids. Did I mention that they are just 13, 12, 9 and 6 years old, the ages that I cant miss out on.
Well then get a damned attorney and fight for them.
[quote=birddog65]Snow storm cancelled the marriage counselor. I have been working a lot the last couple of days. Its now a weird situation, one day she acts like nothing even happened, the next day---- I'm smothering her? I am very confused. /quote]
No, you are sofa king stupid.
When its time to fight, you fight like you are the third monkey on the ramp to get on Noah's Arc... and brother, it is starting to rain!
All y'all arm chair warriors that have been there and done that are absolutely right. Kick her out, get an attorney, grow a set, nut up.
Your all right!
BUT!!!!!
He ain't there yet. He is trying to get through the fog. When he lands on the other side, and he will!! He will probably look back and think just like you guys do.
I know, I know. Your doing the tough love thing. Be a man. But give the guy some time. It is a tough time he is going through and he is just trying to figure it all out. Don't worry, I know he will end up as cynical and bitter as the rest of us, and probably a hell of a lot happier with a new woman!
But he ain't there yet.
Life is but the memories we've created.....Sully Erna
All y'all arm chair warriors that have been there and done that are absolutely right. Kick her out, get an attorney, grow a set, nut up.
Your all right!
BUT!!!!!
He ain't there yet. He is trying to get through the fog. When he lands on the other side, and he will!! He will probably look back and think just like you guys do.
I know, I know. Your doing the tough love thing. Be a man. But give the guy some time. It is a tough time he is going through and he is just trying to figure it all out. Don't worry, I know he will end up as cynical and bitter as the rest of us, and probably a hell of a lot happier with a new woman!
But he ain't there yet.
Ummm... no. The fog should be cleared by now. None of this stupid back-n-forth bullschit.
Dave
Originally Posted by Geno67
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual.
Originally Posted by Judman
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
Originally Posted by KSMITH
My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
Here's the deal If you have not given her grounds for divorce and do not agree to a divorce There can be no divorce. No divorce equals no distribution of wealth Stay in your house Don't give her grounds Remain calm Tell her you do not want and will not agree to a divorce See what happens next.
My, my. You are real wealth of legal advice. Why don't you hang out your shingle and go into the business?
I had the pleasure of watching Fireproof last night. Hands down one of the best comedies I have ever seen.
The story's epicenter is a borderline cuckold that married a kchunt. The kchunt hates him because he works hard and saves money so he can buy the things he enjoys. She also hates him because he looks at porn on occasion and rubs one out. Which, makes sense, since the kchunt he is married to is chasing down a different cock when she goes to work each day.
Anyway, he "discovers" that he needs Jesus to save his marriage, even though the kchunt has not discovered Jesus. He gets stomped on like a pussy for the duration of the film until his kchunt wife finally stops and asks why he is being such a pussy all the time.
He explains he found Jesus and she finds Jesus too. And they (apparently) stay married.
I have no doubt this film would help save really bad marriages that involve kchunts and cuckolds.
Dave the Movie Critic
Originally Posted by Geno67
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual.
Originally Posted by Judman
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
Originally Posted by KSMITH
My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
Here's the deal If you have not given her grounds for divorce and do not agree to a divorce There can be no divorce. No divorce equals no distribution of wealth Stay in your house Don't give her grounds Remain calm Tell her you do not want and will not agree to a divorce See what happens next.
My, my. You are real wealth of legal advice. Why don't you hang out your shingle and go into the business?
Laughin'...
I love divorce advice. Internet or otherwise.
Travis
Originally Posted by Geno67
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual.
Originally Posted by Judman
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
Originally Posted by KSMITH
My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house