Especially when a lawyer from here tells you to I contacted an attorney before the ex and was vacant from the campfire whist I got shcit sorted. I bounced back quickly and high. said to myself "this crap will be over when I decide it's over" You can cry in your beer or drink it...its really an easy choice once you take your head out of your ass
Nope... Long ago I frequently posted here and became a lurker after I went through my own hell of divorce 2 and 1/2 years ago. My Ex had suddenly overnight found a new male friend whom she married less then 8 months after divorcing me. Same story as many here described I worked too much to support HER wants and after 16 years she threw me and my kids away like garbage.
Its been a Very tough road but day by day I find a bit of peace.
I wouldn't wish it to my worst enemy... I can't believe noone else has posted that site, the list on there is a wonderful thing along with radio silence.
You guys are still a riot and I felt sorry for the guy thats all.... Give you a hint wabo says hello to all his old buddies on the fire.. Now back to lurkin for my own reasons.
Especially when a lawyer from here tells you to I contacted an attorney before the ex and was vacant from the campfire whist I got shcit sorted. I bounced back quickly and high.
Ditto. Although to be precise I contacted several attorneys and retained only one. Our good friend isaac was one of 'em, and at times a damn sight more useful to me than the one I paid the bulk of the fees to here in W. Texas...
"I'm gonna have to science the schit out of this." Mark Watney, Sol 59, Mars
Yep isaac is the best! I wished he lived here in NY but then again I wouldn't wish that on him but he's helped me out with great legal advise and even got me out of a jail in Tijuana
...and was vacant from the campfire whist I got shcit sorted...
BTW, this is for schittshow sure good advice... my 2nd ex had snuck into my files and knew my 24HCF password, and even though I didn't post in public about the divorce, there was some communication in PM's that she got access to. Fortunately there was no damning admissions there on my part, but imagine my surprise when printouts of the PM pages from this site showed up in my attorney's office. Even though it wasn't something that could help her case, the judge said it wasn't kosher and threw out the stolen correspondence.
Bottom line, stay OFF the innanet when discussing your divorce until the ink is dry on the divorce decree.
"I'm gonna have to science the schit out of this." Mark Watney, Sol 59, Mars
phug me....mine from the time i informed her i was done to the judge signing off was around 5 weeks....thankful for it or i prolly woulda come out alot worse off....
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Looks mean crap as far as crazy goes my 1st wife was 1st runner Miss New York I was dumb enough to marry her but smart enough to get out after 4 months
after reading this thread, i have an urge to drag kenny rodgers down the road behind my truck til he's nothing but a bloody pair of pants with a bone in it.
first 8 years were good, hell they were great....then she got put on a med for her migraines and it permanently rewired her head...when i told Doc about her being on Depakote for 3 years his eye got kinda big and he said "Yep that will do it."
i shoulda cut and run after i realized what happened but stuck it out 3 years past that...hell her daughters gave up and moved out after 18 months...shows who is smarter there i guess......
Last edited by rattler; 01/29/15.
A serious student of the "Armchair Safari" always looking for Africa/Asia hunting books