I like the 95 grain Ballistic Tip....

Fueled by 4064 or IMR 4895 or RL 15....

or for less recoil, for kids, new shooters, or the ladies...
30 grains of 4198 or RL 7....

for deer season this year, in 243 I've been toting an 87 grain Hornady SP, ran with a charge of 38 grains of 3031..

The ADL seems to like that load....