Way I see it,...a man can buy a woman drinks,..talk sweet stuff to her,..take her out to dinners and movies,..or they can just get down to business.
Pull their business out at a gathering,..hold it in their hand and work the room.
Walk up to a woman,..point it at her and ask, "Dick?",.....if she shakes her head move on to the next one,..ask "Dick?"
You might have to go through a dozen,.......but if you're diligent, one is gonna hook onto it eventually.
I never figured that out until late in life. Maybe Kavanaugh figured it out earlier.
But what about when she says "Honey, the head of your peter is lit up like a road flare! You been doing it the hard way with that hand sanitizer stuff?"