Sorry - late to the call-out thread, SMH...
He’s right - I posted an ITI, and flat forgot about the deal.
No excuse - I was busy and it slipped away, would have cheerfully paid the debt with a simple reminder.
I got nasty PM after 11 days, and notice that the item had been relisted and sold.
I made a sincere apology then - and now - I screwed up, no excuse, sorry for your time lost.
Those don't sound like the words of a deadbeat douchebag to me...
Just sayin...