My wife and I have to head back East tomorrow. My SIL unexpectedly passed away two weeks ago and we have her funeral to attend. The unknown of the trip is who is coming back. She had an 11yr old son whose father has never met him and will need somewhere to live. His father has said that he wants custody, but the boy doesn't want to go with him. Not sure he will even show to be honest. I'm certainly not into denying a father his child, but it's hard to say what's right for him at the moment. Our nephew knows us and his cousins, and has said he would like to live with us for now. He's a good kid and I want the best for him. Should be an interesting trip. Wish me luck!