Personally, I like the 158-160s, as that's what shoots to the sights of my little older snubby, and I like it to shoot to the sights.
But, a 125, if going fast enough, should be equal to any 9mm 125 load out there, and apparently everyone likes a 9mm these days. Heck, even I have one. I would try to load them to at least 1150fps or more, though, if the wife can handle it.
