I’m lucky, mine lets me do what I want. She would wait on me hand and foot if I would let her. She made the two girls do everything around the house, but she hovered around my boy like he was a prince after the two girls left home. She started hovering over me when he left for the navy. I had to make her stop that. Her mother did that with her Dad. When grandsons are at my house, same thing with them.