We have a young family here from Milan, been here
5 or so years.

I ask her why come here.

Because she can walk around town safely.
"It's so nice to feel safe".

She grew up right outside Milan, it used to be nice there.
"Then they started moving in, now every door and window has to be
barred. And it's not safe to go out after dark".

Any guess what religion she mentioned?

Parents who say they have good kids..Usually don't!