The only 10 I've had is the XDM 4.5" model. It shoots fairly soft with 180gr/1250fps ammo and it carries easily enough. I like the sights and the trigger is fairly decent. I bought it for a hard-use outdoors and truck pistol and it gets nasty and beat up. No complaints yet.
Smith who worked on my Glock 40 has one of these. The XDM trigger (he worked on it) is much better than the Glock (even after a trigger job).