I don't have it all figured out yet but it appears that I have to disable bluetooth on the phone to get it back. The phone is trying to send it to the car. If that's all it is, it's easy to live with. My wife needs to take the car to Salt Lake tomorrow and she wants to be able to use her phone. I can't let her do that until I'm sure she still has the use of the phone when not in the car.

“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
― George Orwell

It's not over when you lose. It's over when you quit.