I read it before reading everyone's posts and had many of the same thoughts. Didn't get any details except the gfm info then my initial thoughts are gfy.
Go fund yourself.

Like when my wife's cousin seriously started a gfm to pay to take his family on a vacation. He comes from a wealthy family too. I posted under his Facebook post about it gfy. His friends and family thought I was being overly crude until I followed up with go fund yourself.

Bb