For a bunch of wise men, I have never read so much piss poor advice, let the man that paid for it choose what happens to it, if it was a gift, then make it a gift, if you busted your ass buying it, then do what the hell ever you want, no one knows your kids better than the one who raised them, as for what's "fair" get over it, life ain't "fair" , some will be happy others will piss on your grave , so be it. You will dead, so the bitchen will fall on deaf ears, and as the ole saying goes, free advice is worth exactly what you paid for it !
