Hard situation to be in. Your probably the central figure of strength in all of this in the family. BTDT.
When he passes, just cross his hands on his chest, give him a kiss on his forehead and say he is gone. And he had a good life. Needs ta be one strong person to help others see closure in a way from a lead figure. That person is you I'm betting. Best wishes to you and your family members.
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