Once noted at a former collegemate's ranch home at the number of loaded arms about. His response was "it's not a concern as the kids (2) had been instructed not to touch them." Two years later daughter found her 10-year-old brother dead in mom and dad's bedroom. The marriage did not survive. I like to think Cookie and I raised a trustworthy son. I have learned, however, that the phase "not my child" is a bit risky to employ.
