I tend to tip on my card to be split between the staff and add a little cash to the waitresses hand as well.
On Christmas eve we didn’t feel like cooking so we went to a local restaraunt we got to fairly often. The only waitress was an older gal in her 50’s that we know well and she dotes on my 7 yo son. The bill got a nice 30% tip on the card and she was handed a $100 bill and told it was a gift for her alone.
No way in hell I was leaving a $100 bill on the table
