You have a very special lady. Mine wouldn't do that. To her credit she wouldn't say a word if I did it for myself though. I've got a very special gift for her this year! For Valentines day I got her the usual assortment chocolates and scented candles but at the bottom of the bag she's gonna find a S&W M&P E-Z .380 along with a weapon light/laser combo. I was cleaning my Sig P365XL last week and when I reassembled it I handed it her. She took a sincere interest in it until I asked her to rack the slide. I'm hoping she can manipulate the slide on the S&W. I'd love to take her shooting and get her proficient with it.