If you’re serious and she’s serious that depends if you want her to quit drinking or not.
My brother, two of my cousins and my uncle are/were alcoholic, my parents never were, neither was I tho I drank heavily into my twenties. I’m pretty sure there’s a genetic component.
I don’t drink in front of them, there’s plenty of other opportunities .
…and if you yourself find it hard NOT to drink……..
"...if the gentlemen of Virginia shall send us a dozen of their sons, we would take great care in their education, instruct them in all we know, and make men of them." Canasatego 1744
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