A while back, I thought I was being the nice and thoughtful spouse. I was occasionally slipping a couple of bucks in the outside pocket of my wife's purse. Thought it would be a nice surprise for her. Turns out, being the 'knowing where every penny resides" person she is, she honestly thought she was losing her memory and was taking vitamin supplements to counteract it. She eventually figured it out and told me to stop.

For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: "If a man will not work, he shall not eat."

2 Thessalonians 3:10