I would hate to love my money more than my wife, or stepdaughter.
It’s not about love for my wife or for her daughter it’s for the freeloading piece of crap the daughter is with
The daughter will get something it’s just how much
Sounds to me the familial relationship is very important to your wife.
Perhaps a good way to address that is to create a trust upon death for the benefit of any grandchildren. College, first house, first car, that sort of thing. That way, the dead beat is taken out of the cycle.
