5Sdad, try being me. I live 30 miles outside of nowhere Idaho.
on our road we see 2 vehicles a day. these are border patrol.
some times I can drive for a month around the area without meeting another car.
right now I am in Raleigh NC on a business trip. after a day driving city streets I am a wreak. but especially the parking lots of starbucks or a mall just about have me crawling on the side walk.
in other words I FEEL YOUR PAIN!
Many years ago, when I was working in New York City, my uncle Woody brought his family in by car from very rural Lakota, North Dakota. As I recall, they wanted to see a Yankees-Twins baseball game. As we sat in my apartment on the upper West Side, he observed that he would never be back again. NYC was not to his taste!