Home Forums Hunting & Shooting Hunter's Campfire Dumped the wife.

Suspect there is a lot of truth there.
Guys that think they are tough [bleep] might be resistant to admit such, but is probably often the case.

A lot of marriages fail because the Commies have filled the women's heads so full of chit about the evils of men that they start to view their partner as the enemy.

I spent a lot of time in a relationship like that but I was too young and obtuse to read the signals. My wife at the time used extremely creative passive/aggressive behavior to signal her contempt for the male gender,...of which I was her personal representative.

Talked till blue in the face. We reach an accord and I keep my end but hers inevitably fades like the morning fog coupled with fact I've been alone here in paradise for 8 years with no less than another 5 years facing me at which point I'll be 72 if I make it that far . Quitting her job (nurse) to relocate would mean giving up her present 5 minute commute to work V. the 25 minute drive to the closest hospital here.She won't do it.

It's been a loveless, boring, mentally draining relationship for years that has required way to much work for little dividends.

I'm finished.

284,

I feel your pain. Sounds like you're done. Best of luck on the next chapter, brother.

Sorry to hear that man. 21 years is a long time. But when it's time, it's time. it will take a bit but it gets better man, I promise.

once it is done you will look in the mirror and say, why in the hell did you wait so long to do this

No such thing as a friend when it comes to women, money and promotions! Sad but true. GW

He did end up being a good friend that I will have nothing to do with now.
She was banging him
She had secret bank accounts that I did not know about
And some how the word got spread around to all my other so called friends that I was abusing her and they all took her side until the truth came out I was even blocked from going to the Mountain man camps that we went to for about two years before the truth came out.

I had nothing when we were married
After the split and divorce I could not figure out where all this money was coming from. I was loaded.
I started looking through our bank register and noticed about 4 items every month from thrift stores but she never brought any thing home when we were together.

Her Grandmother lost her home after about 6 months with in our separation.

I figured that even though we could not afford a home of our own I was paying for her grandmothers home and she was giving money to other family members as well as Putin my money in her own secret accounts.

After the split she ran to my so called friend as fast as she could and she became his problem.

Before the divorce was even legally finished I purchased my home on the same street as they live on about 6 doors north of them. Just before I started looking at where all my money was coming from. I hoped that I could salvage a 13 year marriage (I grew up Mormon and still have some of their values) She wanted no part of that.

She wanted him more that she wanted me even tho he was older than her father is.
Well she is his problem now he had several rental properties and has sold several just to keep up with her. HA HA.

She has had mail delivered to my place and when I took it back and put it on the windshield of her car she tried to have the post office arrest me for threatening her threw the postal service twice that started 10 years after the divorce to no avail post office told her what I told her. Keep her own mail at her own address

It has been around 25 years from our divorce and the fat old hag still can not even look me in the face as I drive by there place when she is out side.

She did not age well at all.

So When it is over it is OVER

I have been with my current girlfriend for around 22 years now and she has her own baggage but we make it work because she knows if she does not like things. There is the door and no hard feeling

I kinda do feel that the Bastid that played me and took my wife is kinda a friend cus he took a very big problem off my hands and showed me that you can never ever trust anyone 100% in life.

Don't dump her, hump her!!!

What was that Bobby Bare song? About a winner? She gets older and uglier every day, but I'm a winner?

LOL, that sounds familiar. I never was short of money before I was married, and have never been short of money since the divorce. In between, never had a spare dime, always borrowing, and she was making 100K plus.

She actually told me at one time she was making the money and I was spending it......

6 years later, I'm debt free, retirement is fully funded, and can't figure out what to do with this money that keeps coming in.

Get another wife, that will solve your excess money problems

That's funny. You come on an Internet forum parading your personal business like some Dr. Phil drama queen and bristle up when you are told the truth.

As far as your "request" goes, I'm a hundred percent heterosexual male. Keep asking though, we have a lot of girlie men on here.

Marriage is a once in a lifetime gig for me.....

funny how you can think one thing and the person you spend the most time with for the biggest part of your life can think something completely different.

Wife and I had a heart to heart a few days ago and I won't get into what was said but just saying what was on our mind, not out of meanness but concern really opened things up...things that neither of us were aware were bothering each other for some time.

Blow Deflave he'll love it.Stay with it till his knees buckle.

Talked with you briefly about a BGE beyond that you should just shut the fugg up.

sounds familiar. when you've done all you can do, and it ain't enough, time to go.

good luck,

You're lucky..the mean ones stay around to insure that your life continues to be miserable and twist the knife until the day you die...21 years is a good effort but might not be enough for them.