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Well, I decided after being by myself for a while id move one in. We've known each other awhile, and im very happy. Moved her in friday. Inherited a cat too but it seems to be adjusting fine. We both have a past, just as most do. Neithers been even been close to spotless. Shes been married 3 times, me, never been. Shes just out of a 5 yr relationship, but says she hasnt loved him for the last 2. Ive been runnin women for almost 11 yrs, except for a short stint with one for a few months, she just wasnt happy with me and the outdoors.....sent her down the road when she gave me an ultimatum. We talked about "us" while she was still with the other guy, and both seem to be on the same page. Shes only been in a few days, and everything is going fine, except one area. I cant understand why, but we both are rehashing questions about our pasts, questions I thought we both answered, many times, since we both started talking way back. Ive always been the "past is the past" type, and leave any jealous thoughts of those days back there....keep truckin. So why the 20 questions, from both of us, now?
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You all are still feeling each other out. You will have to draw a line in the sand, enough about the past, let all that old cshit go.
Good luck
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Ain't learned [bleep] about living with one yet obvously. Might as well as why Hoppes smells good.
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"past is the past"
Been my experience this is an impossible trait for the female of the species.
But wishing you good luck!!!
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"Come, shall we go and kill us venison? And yet it irks me the poor dappled fools, Being native burghers of this desert city, Should in their own confines with forked heads Have their round haunches gored."
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Thanks, im gonna need it it seems. Aint never had so many questions in any relationship, ever. Which made me ask a million questions. Almost made me think shes thinkin if she made the right decision. Dont get me wrong, shes been really going out of her way to make me sure she wants to be here. Hell she came from another state to be here. Im just thinking with all the questions, she may not be as sure as she thought. Hell, who knows, day by day.
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Move her back out before the boxes are unpacked. I wouldn't give your relationship 2 years.
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She has no idea what she wants. Three marriages later, just out of a five year relationship and living with you, talking to you while she was with him, now 20 questions...
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well since you're posting this on a public forum, I'll give my .02 cents Shes been married 3 times, me, never been. Shes just out of a 5 yr relationship, but says she hasnt loved him for the last 2. We talked about "us" while she was still with the other guy I wouldn't unpack my bags.
have you paid your dues, can you moan the blues, can you bend them guitar strings
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The past is like herpes...it is always with you...you just get some time between outbreaks.
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She has no idea what she wants. Three marriages later, just out of a five year relationship and living with you, talking to you while she was with him, now 20 questions... Thats what bothers me. Least she was out of bed bright and early to go check on a job at the hospital. Aint afraid of work, this one. Had a whole list of "must dos" today to get rooted. Rearranged the kitchen yesterday, cant find my coffee cups, so think shes here to stay. Just....the questions. Like I said, aint ever had that before, specially after we talked for so long.
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Forget about the past. Start fresh with the first day you Two met. The rest and best of your lives is ahead of you. Hasbeen
hasbeen (Better a has been than a never was!)
NRA Patron member Try to live your life where the preacher doesn't have to lie at your funeral
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Appreciate it. Think ill go to the range before work, think about some stuff, and see if I get any "where u at, u didnt tell me u were leaving" texts Thanks for the ear fellas!
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From the sounds of then, it appears you have a woman who thinks to much. Save the moving boxes.
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jorge's philosophy on females (excluding one's mother of course);
1. The BEST one you will ever meet is still a pain in the ass. 2. If they didn't have a hole, there'd be a bounty on them
Mitigating above two; big tits.
A good principle to guide me through life: “This is all I have come to expect, standard lackluster performance. Trust nothing, believe no one and realize it will only get worse…”
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If she asks a question, just say, that's the past. Our time is now. Everyday is a good day! They are going to re-arrange things. You can't sweat the small cshit. Tell her you like it.
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Pick the one with the biggest tits you can tolerate the most.
Camp is where you make it.
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I predict that this will become a thread of epic proportions. Asking these guys for relationship advice is like asking Rosie O'Donnell for diet recommendations.........................
While it's true that all liberals are crazy people, not all crazy people are liberals.
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