Is it possible that she is seeking reassurance from you with all her questions? Just a thought, but she may be needing a lot of support and reassurance since she has had so many failures before. It's possible she wants to make sure she doesn't make any of the mistakes that caused you to end the relationships with your previous ladies,so she wants to get all the details on what went wrong before her. She may be thinking this might be her last chance not to die alone, and she may be overdoing it.
I struggled to find a woman who was smart, but was not a bitch. I thought I found one, and have been married 39 years.
But it turns out she has bitchy thoughts.
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -Ernest Hemingway The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.-- Edward John Phelps
This was the point at which ALL (yes ALL) my hobbies became just another job.
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"Come, shall we go and kill us venison? And yet it irks me the poor dappled fools, Being native burghers of this desert city, Should in their own confines with forked heads Have their round haunches gored."
Should have never moved her in. Maybe down the road, but she ain't ready and you need to be on your toes. Trouble ahead. Too many "serious" relationships that went down the crapper. She is the common denominator. Tell her that you want to start going to church (if you don't already) and watch her reaction.
Faith and love of others knows no mileage nor bounds. That's simply the way it is. dogzapper
After the game is over, the king and the pawn go into the same box. Italian Proverb
Based on what you posted and asked, am thinking that you already have sifted the contents and calculated an answer. Are you seeking rebuttal from folks here? You may obtain more useful results by asking yourself what you truly want in such a deal, and then answering yourself in a brutally honest manner.
woman across the street is one of them that ain't happy unless she is in the middle of some schit - fighting with a neighbor or taking up a cause that only she believes in , raising some crazy ass kids from 3 different daddies with an ex that is stalking her and a hubby that doesn't appreciate her.
some women just want drama in their lives - I guess its better to them than just living the same day over and over again .
My nephew married a woman like that. A day doesn't go by she isn't fighting with someone
I see that crap on social media - always posting something about trust, friendship, what a good man is, how she demands the best of her man, on and on. Can't figure out if she has all the answers how she always end up with a loser.
At my age, there ain't enough hormones in me to make me want to deal with that level of headache.
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