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I have enough grandkids for me. I really do not like other peoples kids. They can be annoying as hell. Because usually their parents are annoying as hell!
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Happens a lot with my 2 year old, but it's almost always very old women. I think it makes their day. Can't allow that, you need to tell them to fugg the fugg off. Yep.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I have enough grandkids for me. I really do not like other peoples kids. They can be annoying as hell. Because usually their parents are annoying as hell! ^^^Normal response.^^^
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I'd talk to them if they would stop crying and running.
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Perfect teachable moments. All my kids are grown now but when I go out with the Grandson he is a big flirt with his curly locks and big smile that most women teens through Grandma cant help themselves. Lots of the hes so adorable etc.. comments.
Fortunately when the friendly grandpa dudes make eye contact with me they just avert and move along which is tough because the kid is always smiling and waving to everyone especially the ladies.
I don't allow physical contact when Im in charge from anyone but his Grandmother and Aunties have a hard time keeping the other ladies off of him.
And I never interact with other kids other than to shoot the parents a nod of understanding or disapproval if the brats are acting up.
"Maybe we're all happy."
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I love kids. And kids seem to love me; I'm a kid magnet. I've had kids being held by their mom reach their arms out to me at first sight. It's wonderful, but a little bit worrisome, too. I always say to the little bunchkin, "It's okay with me because your Mom is here. And I'm a Grampa." Occasionally, I'll touch hands, but that's all. And I ALWAYS look Mom or Dad in the eye to make sure they're okay with it. The slightest bit of unease, and I step right away.
Inside, I'd love to hug the little squeezle but I know that's no longer possible in today's world. Damn shame. So THAT explains your demeanor toward me years ago when you fitted the ear plugs on me in Scotty's place! kidding
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I do it all the time, can't see the harm in it if you make sure the parents are right there..what is the big problem? I usually give them a gentle ribbing, and the parents usually laugh along. Those parents are retards. Stop doing that. What is it you are afraid of? Are you thinking everyone who does so us hitting on your wife via children, that everyone who does so is a predator? Do you let your kids out on Halloween?
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Perfect teachable moments. All my kids are grown now but when I go out with the Grandson he is a big flirt with his curly locks and big smile that most women teens through Grandma cant help themselves. Lots of the hes so adorable etc.. comments.
Fortunately when the friendly grandpa dudes make eye contact with me they just avert and move along which is tough because the kid is always smiling and waving to everyone especially the ladies.
I don't allow physical contact when Im in charge from anyone but his Grandmother and Aunties have a hard time keeping the other ladies off of him. I don't allow physical or verbal. "We teach our daughter not to talk to strangers" is usually enough. But every now and then you gotta look one in the eye and tell them to fugk off before they'll walk away.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Perfect teachable moments. All my kids are grown now but when I go out with the Grandson he is a big flirt with his curly locks and big smile that most women teens through Grandma cant help themselves. Lots of the hes so adorable etc.. comments.
Fortunately when the friendly grandpa dudes make eye contact with me they just avert and move along which is tough because the kid is always smiling and waving to everyone especially the ladies.
I don't allow physical contact when Im in charge from anyone but his Grandmother and Aunties have a hard time keeping the other ladies off of him. I don't allow physical or verbal. "We teach our daughter not to talk to strangers" is usually enough. But every now and then you gotta look one in the eye and tell them to fugk off before they'll walk away. That is paranoid, do you really think there is no difference between kids talking to strangers when alone, or when mom and dad are right there?
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Perfect teachable moments. All my kids are grown now but when I go out with the Grandson he is a big flirt with his curly locks and big smile that most women teens through Grandma cant help themselves. Lots of the hes so adorable etc.. comments.
Fortunately when the friendly grandpa dudes make eye contact with me they just avert and move along which is tough because the kid is always smiling and waving to everyone especially the ladies.
I don't allow physical contact when Im in charge from anyone but his Grandmother and Aunties have a hard time keeping the other ladies off of him. I don't allow physical or verbal. "We teach our daughter not to talk to strangers" is usually enough. But every now and then you gotta look one in the eye and tell them to fugk off before they'll walk away. Not a damn thing wrong with that in my book. Anyone who doesn't respect those boundaries should be lookin for some hurt
"Maybe we're all happy."
"Go to the sporting goods store. From the files, obtain form 4473. These will contain descriptions of weapons and lists of private ownership."
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Perfect teachable moments. All my kids are grown now but when I go out with the Grandson he is a big flirt with his curly locks and big smile that most women teens through Grandma cant help themselves. Lots of the hes so adorable etc.. comments.
Fortunately when the friendly grandpa dudes make eye contact with me they just avert and move along which is tough because the kid is always smiling and waving to everyone especially the ladies.
I don't allow physical contact when Im in charge from anyone but his Grandmother and Aunties have a hard time keeping the other ladies off of him. I don't allow physical or verbal. "We teach our daughter not to talk to strangers" is usually enough. But every now and then you gotta look one in the eye and tell them to fugk off before they'll walk away. That is paranoid, do you really think there is no difference between kids talking to strangers when alone, or when mom and dad are right there? Its not paranoia, its creating boundaries and expecting other people to honor them and if they don't then they get the hammer so to speak.
"Maybe we're all happy."
"Go to the sporting goods store. From the files, obtain form 4473. These will contain descriptions of weapons and lists of private ownership."
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What is it you are afraid of?
Are you thinking everyone who does so us hitting on your wife via children, that everyone who does so is a predator?
"Don't talk to strangers" means just that. If I let them interact because I'm there I'd be trying to teach one thing via words and teaching the exact opposite via example.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I don't understand why anyone would try and speak to some kid they don't know.
Because they're old-timers and when they came up/where they came up, it was not considered a problem. And people didn't tell them to fugg off. Reminds me of Shotgun Joe Biden's excuse for putting his dick beaters all over little girls. "I'm just an old man from a time when this was ok." Yeah, right. You remind me of the feminists that get their panties in a wad when some old-timer accidentally calls them "honey."
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That is paranoid, do you really think there is no difference between kids talking to strangers when alone, or when mom and dad are right there?
An undeveloped mind will not discern. You're teaching them to interact with strangers. So, stop talking to little kids you don't know.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Just the other day there was a little girl there with dad, she had lost her grip on her helium balloon, the string was just out of here reach from the ceiling, I walked by, grabbed the string and said "oh here's my balloon" and took about three steps. .I turned around and she said, "hey, that is my balloon" I said "are you sure cuz it looks just like one I lost a couple of days ago". She got a confused look on her face and her father laughed. I gave the balloon back, we went along our separate ways. No big deal
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You remind me of the feminists that get their panties in a wad when some old-timer accidentally calls them "honey."
You're not the first one to be butt hurt over it. That's why I posted the PSA.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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That is paranoid, do you really think there is no difference between kids talking to strangers when alone, or when mom and dad are right there?
An undeveloped mind will not discern. You're teaching them to interact with strangers. So, stop talking to little kids you don't know. If you can teach a kid not to talk to strangers, then you can teach a child the difference in doing so with or without a parent near by. Until they can do so, they should not ever be alone.
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Just the other day there was a little girl there with dad, she had lost her grip on her helium balloon, the string was just out of here reach from the ceiling, I walked by, grabbed the string and said "oh here's my balloon" and took about three steps. .I turned around and she said, "hey, that is my balloon" I said "are you sure cuz it looks just like one I lost a couple of days ago". She got a confused look on her face and her father laughed. I gave the balloon back, we went along our separate ways. No big deal ^^^Not normal.^^^
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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If you can teach a kid not to talk to strangers, then you can teach a child the difference in doing so with or without a parent near by.
Wrong.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I wear this when taking my grandkid out and that pretty much solves any issues especially when I crank my head around at you.
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