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My wife works for a Dr and that Dr's wife handles the business of his practice. There seems to be issues quite frequently when it comes to pay, benefits, or reimbursement. I warned my wife when she took the job that I've never had good luck in the employment situations where the husband has the wife running the books. I'm not sure why but I've seen a lot of issues with those types of arrangements. I don't know if it's just communication problems or what. Usually in that situation the husband is either beta or just not organized enough to manage his own business. So, he's either telling his wife one thing and his employees another to keep some perception of peace or he's just unorganized and doesn't take others issues serious. Either way the best way is often to communicate with the wife directly or to get them both together at the same time. +100 Basically the old "good cop/bad cop" act or a wife actively undermining the husband's decisions.
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Tax time is approaching rapidly. No employer wants the feds, or their counterparts on the state level poking around their book-keeping system.. You might mention that to whomever writes the paychecks. Jerry
Ignorance can be fixed. Stupid is forever!
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I would tell them for 2k now, let's call it good. You let the situation ride without correcting it, so bear half of the fault.
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My wife works for a Dr and that Dr's wife handles the business of his practice. There seems to be issues quite frequently when it comes to pay, benefits, or reimbursement. I warned my wife when she took the job that I've never had good luck in the employment situations where the husband has the wife running the books. I'm not sure why but I've seen a lot of issues with those types of arrangements. I don't know if it's just communication problems or what. Usually in that situation the husband is either beta or just not organized enough to manage his own business. So, he's either telling his wife one thing and his employees another to keep some perception of peace or he's just unorganized and doesn't take others issues serious. Either way the best way is often to communicate with the wife directly or to get them both together at the same time. +100 Basically the old "good cop/bad cop" act or a wife actively undermining the husband's decisions. Maybe she wants some “special” attention?
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I sure figured Ringman would have weighed in by now on this.
I think he worked for months for a company without getting paid...
Molɔ̀ːn Labé Skýla!
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I would tell them for 2k now, let's call it good. You let the situation ride without correcting it, so bear half of the fault. This is a good idea. P
Obey lawful commands. Video interactions. Hold bad cops accountable. Problem solved.
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Get them together, leave emotion out of it, declare your case, and see what happens. Get paid or walk depending on the outcome. I prefer business agreements to be done in writing.
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I have received a substantial raise since that time period, but those back wages have still not been made right.
Wanna blow it ALL up?
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America will perish while those who should be standing guard are satisfying their lusts.
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I sure figured Ringman would have weighed in by now on this.
I think he worked for months for a company without getting paid... Did they take his stapler? It was a Swingline.....
I am MAGA.
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