This is another example of the fact that God's way is the only good way. I'm not judging the issues of everyone's divorce.
However, two things should be considered by those parents who encourage divorce in their own children by siding with their blame games.
1. Some situations are far worse than " irreconcilable differences.."
2. God hates putting away or divorce.
3. The heathen judges are worse than the least esteemed believers in the church at Corinth, at judging matters.
It doesn't take a three year law degree and a bunch of money:
It takes time under teaching of the Word from a truly gifted pastor and a lot of personal Bible reading. The O.T. goes into much detail about marriage.
https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/1-Corinthians-Chapter-6/This theme is common and we all probably know of an example of a friend or family member who is suffering without remedy because of going before the lost of this world for "help."