Could it be because you do not call them out for their behavior. But then again, that would eventually require a fight in the parking lot, unless you were holding a big azz wrench in your hand.
And that is a thing.
Remember those salty old WWII gets.
Mean bastards when crossed.
Back in the day when you crossed a line, could be as little as a curse in front of a woman, someone would call you on it.
Not today.
I have started doing it.
Have told my wife, "I only need to be nice, when others are nice".
