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I’m pretty damn sure I’m fd. Don’t need ridicule, or insults and I’m not gonna get into it here. Just need to hear from someone,anyone with experience in suspicions. I’m asking for an ear and advise because I have no one. Pm me if anyone gives a [bleep], not looking for any jokes, really don’t need that right now because I’m trying to not lose my schit, while raising my daughter alone. Just honest, discreet, advise and opinion. I don’t have a telephone only text on my tablet and pms here. Respectfully please, thank you
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If you are suspicious, likely you have good reason to be. Trust your instincts. Been there and found out my ex was banging a coworker... If she tries to make you feel crazy, or accuses YOU of doing what you suspect her of, chances shes a whorin around go up rapidly... Other warning signs are if she wont let you view her phone, changes passwords to email or computers so you cannot access her stuff, takes much longer to do simple errands than she should be taking, or disappears for hours during the day. Starts exercising and taking care of herself more than usual, theres a ton of them really.... As a wise man once said, "Bitches come, Bitches go...." Seems to be fairly accurate these days
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If you are suspicious, likely you have good reason to be. Trust your instincts. Been there and found out my ex was banging a coworker... If she tries to make you feel crazy, or accuses YOU of doing what you suspect her of, chances shes a whorin around go up rapidly... Other warning signs are if she wont let you view her phone, changes passwords to email or computers so you cannot access her stuff, takes much longer to do simple errands than she should be taking, or disappears for hours during the day. Starts exercising and taking care of herself more than usual, theres a ton of them really.... As a wise man once said, "Bitches come, Bitches go...." Seems to be fairly accurate these days User name checks out! ✔️
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PM inbound.
I'm happy to help you out.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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Molɔ̀ːn Labé Skýla!
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May we at least know the nature of.your suspicion?
The way life should be.
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This is an outdoorsman’s forum and while you may get moral support I’d not treat this place as a source for advice other than to lawyer up earlier rather than later.
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May we at least know the nature of.your suspicion? Prolly found some track marks.
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If it walks like a duck…
If you’re asking you already know. Sorry man. F that hoe.
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What you need to decide is, do you want to keep your relationship with a woman who shares with others. If it happened once, it will likely happen again, even if shes willing to quit for now and stay with you. Cheating is a character flaw and people who engage in such behavior are more often than not serial offenders. If you decide you want to keep her, the best thing you can do is push her away, likely right now she is relying on you for a lot, but not rewarding you for it. She is giving your prize to another man, make him pay for it. If she cannot rely on you to do what you have been, and she thinks shes going to end up with this bloke, she will eventually expect him to start paying for it. Also improve yourself, if you need to, get in the gym, go on a diet, get yourself back on track to start attracting other women. She will notice this and it will make her reconsider her decision, much more so than if you act needy and beg her to stay. Women dont like needy/pathetic men, it will just drive her farther away.
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What you need to decide is, do you want to keep your relationship with a woman who shares with others. If it happened once, it will likely happen again, even if shes willing to quit for now and stay with you. Cheating is a character flaw and people who engage in such behavior are more often than not serial offenders. If you decide you want to keep her, the best thing you can do is push her away, likely right now she is relying on you for a lot, but not rewarding you for it. She is giving your prize to another man, make him pay for it. If she cannot rely on you to do what you have been, and she thinks shes going to end up with this bloke, she will eventually expect him to start paying for it. Also improve yourself, if you need to, get in the gym, go on a diet, get yourself back on track to start attracting other women. She will notice this and it will make her reconsider her decision, much more so than if you act needy and beg her to stay. Women dont like needy/pathetic men, it will just drive her farther away. ^^^^ A man who knows his stuff ^^^^.
PRESIDENT TRUMP 2024/2028 !!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Bristoe The people wringing their hands over Trump's rhetoric don't know what time it is in America.
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Run from this affair. If she’s using you now she won’t quit later. She’s just looking for someone to support her lunacy.
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If it walks like a duck…
If you’re asking you already know. Sorry man. F that hoe. Agree
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If somebody is texting her pics of a big, black, rager, rest assured it's not her friends "just kidding around."
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Won't offer much in advice - will leave to others - but will share what little I have learned in my years.
I find it is usually my head that is telling my gut things my heart may not want to hear.
Trust your eyes and address situations at the onset. Avoid delay and put yourself in charge of YOURSELF. This reduces the soul killing worry of doubt and indecision that is poison to your being. Action is your conscience and friend.
I don 't believe ALL cheaters are repeat Cheaters- seen it both ways - but many can't get over being cheated.
I hope you can come back to us with either a resolution- or barring that, some resolve!
Hoping the best for you.
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When a country is well governed, poverty and a mean condition are something to be ashamed of. When a country is ill governed, riches and honors are something to be ashamed of . Confucius
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Does she go on cruises with her sister, cousin, and best friend a lot?
LOL
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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If it walks like a duck…
If you’re asking you already know. Sorry man. F that hoe. Agree I would advise that he stop fugking her for now. Just my opinion.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Does she go on cruises with her sister, cousin, and best friend a lot?
LOL Ever send pics of her in a halloween costume to an ex-bf in spandex?
Me
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"Las Vegas with my girlfriends" is usually a strong indicator.
LOL
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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