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Kids need parents that set boundaries not parents that are there friends. If he's a good kid help him find other arrangements but don't rubber stamp your 16 year old living with her boyfriend even if it's under your roof and watchful eye. Stick to the principle of not living together until you're married. She may later choose otherwise bit won't later blame you for allowing it when it goes south.
Tradition principles became traditional for a reason. They have generally proven over centuries to be the better way.
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Kids need parents that set boundaries not parents that are there friends. If he's a good kid help him find other arrangements but don't rubber stamp your 16 year old living with her boyfriend even if it's under your roof and watchful eye. Stick to the principle of not living together until you're married. She may later choose otherwise bit won't later blame you for allowing it when it goes south.
Tradition principles became traditional for a reason. They have generally proven over centuries to be the better way.
Bb Your assessment it’s right. Don’t set that young kid/s up for failure. Not in the same house. Someone is getting pregnant. Last thing any body needs at this time. Don’t do it U-A
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. Pay for the BBC. How do you stop a 16 year old girl from screwing? Fixt 😁
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We had one of my son’s friends live with us for his senior year in high school. Wasn’t that difficult, we had no daughters.
If we had a teenage daughter, a boyfriend or even just a guy friend of hers staying with us wouldn’t happen, no way. That ain’t salacious it’s just the human dynamic. Common sense.
"...if the gentlemen of Virginia shall send us a dozen of their sons, we would take great care in their education, instruct them in all we know, and make men of them." Canasatego 1744
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Is the couch on the other end of the trailer from the girls bedroom?
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Hell No!
Teenage girls need discipline. Start raising some hell before it's too late.
God Bless America
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Is the couch on the other end of the trailer from the girls bedroom? Lol
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If you had a daughter who turned 16 two days ago, would you allow her boyfriend to move in with the family? There is mom, 18 year old son, and the daughter in the home. Says he has to sleep on the couch.
What say you?
I suspect ya'll might be able to guess my thoughts on this...... I hope they let your boyfriend live with you. LOL
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Teenagers do lots of things they shouldn’t, including having sex, but good parents do not condone and facilitate such behaviors. That’s simply not how morality is taught. Also, allowing this would put undue pressure on your daughter to remain in a relationship with him if and when her feelings for him change, which is likely. Have you considered what happens if and when they break up? What if it’s a nasty break-up? Are you going to boot him out, or allow him to stay when your daughter doesn’t even want to see his face?
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Sleep on the couch? Yeah right.
I was 16 long long ago.
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One King per castle. You provided for your family. He can do the same.
I’ve never seen a man so broke that he could not afford beer & cigarettes.
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I was going to say something on the subject, but I apologize.. I thought you were talking about Schtick finally having some companionship in his life, not about someone's 16 year old daughter.... mY BAD!
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PRESIDENT TRUMP 2024/2028 !!!!!!!!!!
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The people wringing their hands over Trump's rhetoric don't know what time it is in America.
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Not gonna happen,not in this lifetime,or next one either.
Rehab is for quitters!
THEY are all guilty!
Name one honest politician!
DEFINE Treason.
God bless the USA
Democrats ARE the plague!
RINO'S need to be hunted!
Who's a bigger puzzy than Paul Ryan? Mike Pence? John Kerry ?
REELECT NOBODY! Except Trump
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My good friend let his 16 year old girl fly to Tx to see her boyfriend. That started the downward spiral where she's been raped, gang raped, raped by black guys, and is a complete mudshark with low self-asteem.
But, yeah, encouraging your 16 year old to live with her boyfriend is a great idea.
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Well now
Martha Sue back in Nebraska got married wen she woz 13-1/2 to Delbert
haw haw haw
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