Buried in share wish list...manage is "don't spoil my surprises" already checked for you.

Uncheck that and your list will lose those gifts others have already purchased.

This explains how other people saying there is nothing on your list, when you can see they are still there.

There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. -Ernest Hemingway
The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.-- Edward John Phelps