45,
I agree with everything you said, except for one small point.
We (or should I say you, I am only now chiming in) could not discuss the matter whithout questioning the motives of one another concerning the two extreme positions I have mentioned.
I not only think we can discuss "extreme" positions without questioning the motives of others, we must. RH's efforts to ensure folks include Paul's words about who killed Jesus are small compared to my crusade to make sure folks can discuss polarizing issues in a polite, constructive, and non-emotional manner. It should be a given that we as believers can discuss and debate issues with each other in a edifying manner. If we can't, shame on all of us.
Blaine