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Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Steelhead #3115574 06/21/09
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BigPappaX3 Campfire Member B Joined: May 2007 Posts: 389 Western NY	Originally Posted by Steelhead Can't know enough about them nor do I care to. I have a hard enough time giving a [bleep] about people I care about, and there ain't many of them. What I do care about are the children and I assume, naively so I admit, is that ADULTS will do what is necessary to ensure the happiness and health of those children. The adult's needs be damned. Well said The kids in these situations are the innocent bystanders and they suffer greatly. Been there done that from the kids point of view.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment BigPappaX3 #3115601 06/21/09
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vbshootinrange Campfire Outfitter Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 8,534 RETIRED in Oregon, USA	Holding a marrage together for the "sake of the kids" is a farce for the kids. From the time I was a small boy, my mom told me; "when you boys are out of the house, I'm leaving your Dad" Kids can see unhappiness in parents period. This is no way to grow up. Later in life Dad told me mom cut him off after I was conceived. No Nookie at ALL!!! 'till mom left him, just like she said she would, and he re-married. I STILL feel bad for him. Virgil B. Last edited by vbshootinrange; 06/21/09.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment vbshootinrange #3115626 06/21/09
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Bristoe Campfire Oracle B Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 79,321 Likes: 2	My wife read this thread and has gotten all uppity about it,...says that the wife has the right to cut her man down to whatever she feels is appropriate. To demonstrate her newfound empowerment,...she's got me down to twice a day.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Bristoe #3115636 06/21/09
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isaac Campfire Kahuna I Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 62,043 Northern Virginia	she's got me down to twice a day. ++++++++++++++++ I ain't ever dropping to me knees begging, much less twice a day! The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. William Arthur Ward

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment isaac #3115645 06/21/09
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Bristoe Campfire Oracle B Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 79,321 Likes: 2	lolol,.... Yeah,...she's in there right now fryin' me up a plate of oysters and singin' that old Helen Reddy song.

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Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Bristoe #3115649 06/21/09
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isaac Campfire Kahuna I Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 62,043 Northern Virginia	lolol, myself! Happy Dad's Day, Bristoe! Last edited by isaac; 06/21/09. The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. William Arthur Ward

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment isaac #3115652 06/21/09
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Bristoe Campfire Oracle B Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 79,321 Likes: 2	Same to you, Isaac. My kids are taking me out to dinner,...at their favorite pizza place, of course,...and I get to pay the tab,..but it'll be a good time.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Bristoe #3115660 06/21/09
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BrotherBart Campfire Ranger Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 22,135 Likes: 1 Registerd 2003 Tx	Originally Posted by Bristoe My wife read this thread and has gotten all uppity about it,...says that the wife has the right to cut her man down to whatever she feels is appropriate. To demonstrate her newfound empowerment,...she's got me down to twice a day. You are full of more [bleep] than a Christmas turkey... ---------------------------------------- I'm a big fan of the courtesy flush.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment BrotherBart #3115665 06/21/09
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Bristoe Campfire Oracle B Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 79,321 Likes: 2	lolol,...uh-oh!,..she's back again!,..whew

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Steelhead #3115706 06/21/09
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NurseKat Campfire Tracker Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 4,294 Birmingham, Alabama	Originally Posted by Steelhead You think daddy not coming home every not will help her with her character? Methinks two ADULTS, read ADULTS, can do much and provide a happy setting for children despite the failings in their romantic relationship. Adult is a word lost on many and it is far easier to cut and run these days. Everything has consequences but I still believe two ADULTS are better than one where children are concerned. If the parties can live in peace for the kids...SH is right...its better. Not always possible...but when possible, its better. I watched what my kids went through knowing what thier dad had done to me. Truth DOES hurt, and it often hurts the innocent. "Courage is Fear holding on a minute longer." -Gen. Patton

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Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Bristoe #3115984 06/21/09
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nemesis Campfire Tracker Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 3,471	Originally Posted by Bristoe lolol,...uh-oh!,..she's back again!,..whew Better have another plate of them oysters B., cause you may be disappointing her pretty soon if ya' don't......... You must be doing OK though, cause I think I can still hear her singing.......... "I am woman, hear me roar -In numbers too big to ignore -And I know too much to go back an' pretend"...

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment ADK4Rick #3116335 06/21/09
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PJGunner Campfire Outfitter P Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 12,375 Likes: 1 Tucson AZ	Originally Posted by ADK4Rick he's not on this site,hates computers. yes 2 times a year no more I'm not gonna read all the comments on this thread. However, if my wife said only twice a year, she'd be out on her stingy booty and I'd be looking for a replacement. Sex is an integral part of the marriage vow and contract, and to with hold or restrict it to that degree is a violation of the marriage contract between you, the wife and God. I do believe that would be grounds for a divorce. Paul B. Our forefathers did not politely protest the British.They did not vote them out of office, nor did they impeach the king,march on the capitol or ask permission for their rights. ----------------They just shot them. MOLON LABE

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment PJGunner #3116341 06/21/09
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derby_dude Campfire 'Bwana Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 34,261 Montana, Lewis and Clark Count...	If all you men want is sex don't get married. A man will always get more sex single than he will ever married. Marriage isn't about sex. You Christians ought to know that. Don't vote knothead, it only encourages them. Anonymous "Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups." Anonymous "Self-reliance, free thinking, and wealth is anathema to both the power of the State and the Church." Derby Dude

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Bristoe #3116343 06/21/09
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Woodsmaster Campfire Regular W Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 929 The Gorge	Originally Posted by Bristoe My wife read this thread and has gotten all uppity about it,...says that the wife has the right to cut her man down to whatever she feels is appropriate. To demonstrate her newfound empowerment,...she's got me down to twice a day. Being cut down to twice a year means it's time to find someone else. I've been there before.

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment derby_dude #3116346 06/21/09
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NH K9 Campfire Outfitter N Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 10,790 New Hampshire	Originally Posted by derby_dude If all you men want is sex don't get married. A man will always get more sex single than he will ever married. Marriage isn't about sex. You Christians ought to know that. With my schedule, I definitely get more married . I just don't have the time or inclination to chase tail anymore. A guy actually has to go out where there are crowds to deal with that. Nope, much better off now. George �Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.�

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment NH K9 #3116347 06/21/09
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Steelhead Campfire Oracle S Joined: Oct 2002 Posts: 96,121 Likes: 1	Agreed, I get more tail from married women also. "Dear Lord, save me from Your followers"

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment Steelhead #3116366 06/21/09
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NH K9 Campfire Outfitter N Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 10,790 New Hampshire	Originally Posted by Steelhead Agreed, I get more tail from married women also. Dude, you are going hunting with us in December, right? You know how many of us are going and our general AOs. I'm definitely having one of my pards check my house while I'm gone. George �Out of every one hundred men, ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.�

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment NH K9 #3116391 06/21/09
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SnowHunter Campfire Regular Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,851 up a creek	Stayin for the kids is a crock, no matter how well the parents can "hide" the underlying problems. Been there, done that. It still effects the kids. As to the main issue...it sounds like she "left" 5 years ago...and is just keeping him around for convenience of other circumstances (could be financial, or whatever) Living with that kind of guilt isn't easy. I wouldn't wish it on anyone, or my worst enemy...Having been on the other end of the spectrum, Id just as soon not been told about it. It cut, deeply. Besides, if they get divorced, and he admitted that information, its just ammo for her to use against him... Nic Lovin life as a farmer and wife! X2 Farm

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment SnowHunter #3116401 06/21/09
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nemesis Campfire Tracker Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 3,471	Originally Posted by SnowHunter Stayin for the kids is a crock, no matter how well the parents can "hide" the underlying problems. Been there, done that. It still effects the kids. No doubt kids are affected Nic, but perhaps over the long run, not having a daddy in the house at all affects them a lot more. Ya' know?

Re: NO JUDGEMENTS HERE:Infidelity,would ya,could ya,have ya and what were the consequences M or W please comment nemesis #3116412 06/21/09
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SnowHunter Campfire Regular Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,851 up a creek	Originally Posted by nemesis Originally Posted by SnowHunter Stayin for the kids is a crock, no matter how well the parents can "hide" the underlying problems. Been there, done that. It still effects the kids. No doubt kids are affected Nic, but perhaps over the long run, not having a daddy in the house at all affects them a lot more. Ya' know? I can tell you, in the interem, and for us, its been 10 months...its effected them POSITIVELY. They're THRIVING! And thier Dad will be as much a part of thier life as HE Makes himself...its up to the PARENTS to be a part of thier kids lives, whether they're married, divorced, or whatever. Kids know...and you don't realize the damage till the situation cracks. I've seen it first hand. Had I known how bad it effected them, I wouldn't have stuck around so long. Nic Lovin life as a farmer and wife! X2 Farm

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