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I know Im new here and haven't posted much... My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me last night... We both have many differences, but i cant see myself without him... i've said some really mean things to him that I didn't mean.. I tried taking my own life last night... and i could stop thinking all the people i would hurt doing that... I know its a very selfish thing to do.... but if so hard to breath... I know i need help and but there so much pain...
How do you cope when all hope seems gone... all dreams have died... How do you cope when you've given every peace of your heart to your to the one only that has been there for you? and now I have no one that could understand me and hold me... make me feel safe... I don't know how to move on... and start over... I can't handle this...

Don't quit 5 minutes before the miracle.


Mike

Hmmmmmmm.

He screwed up! Not you!! Your better off without him!!!

Dgal----Nothing hurts as much as losing/breaking up with someone you love and there is nothing that takes that pain away except time.

We've all been there and know how much it hurts now.. but each day gets easier. Kinda like hunting in steep terrain....it's tough going up that hill and you might slip and fall but you have to continue up that hill. Once you reach the top the view is incredible and while you can see the crooked path you took to get there it doesn't look so bad...in fact the journey itself is what makes the view so much better.

Please be good to yourself and if you need help there are many resources available. Seek out those you love and trust...seek out the comfort of your faith and remember that this tremendous pain is only temporary...it gets better...soooo much better.

God Bless and be strong!

Never hurt from a lost relationship that I didn't look back on later and not be thankful it ended.

It's darkest before the dawn... Met my wife of 20+ years a couple months after getting dumped in devastating fashion. The pain, and personal growth, of the heartbreak was necessary in order to understand what I'd found when I met Cyn.

Hang in there. And stop dicking around with suicide!!!! Buck up, trooper.

I dont think that you are going to get the kind of help you need here, you need to be with family and or friends and discuss this with them, not a bunch of strangers online.

He is such a great guy and has been there for me when no one has... I just wish this never happened... Thank you so much for your kind works of wisdom AcesNeights!

AcesNeights

I could not of said it any better.

Ditto for me as well... does suck to be going through it though... the old saying about just going "one day at a time" really does have merit

Find a really hot chick and rebound, that'll show him!

I wish I could go to family and friends... They are just like strangers to me... They never approved of me... I've always been alone when it came to things like this... and thats why i have reached out to you all.

Wish in one hand and [bleep] in the other and see which one fills up faster.

Screw wishing, what if's, whys, don't make a hill of beans nor does it change the events, it's about the now. Bad form to allow events to control oneself.

I'm assuming he is probably a great guy as I'm assuming you are a great gal, that don't mean you were great for one another, such is life.

Don't worry, as bad is it may seem right now it will probably be worse tomorrow so enjoy the now.

is the boyfriend a campfire member?

Dgal,stop thinking about cashing in,I've felt like that was the answer but always found a reason not to do it.

you have a good heart to love somebody like that,you will find love again.

remember,guy's are like the mid town bus,there is another one coming along in 10 minutes.

BTW,it took a good hard slap from Steelhead for me to get my head straight too,he is a wise and to the point guy.

We both though we were soul mates..... I guess not... I will miss him dearly!

Far worse things then being wrong (unless it's putting the moves on a chick with a dick).

Actually I don't think anyone was wrong as I'm sure you probably were for a time, just not now.

Still not one for wrong, right, what ifs. Remember, water is wet, women tell little lies, the sky is blue and who gives a [bleep].

Never, ever, give another person ALL of yourself.

Reserve just enough of yourself....so that when they fail(and they will), you can still walk away with your head screwed on straight, and enough of your pride/self-respect left to navigate the truth and move on.

Best of luck.