First thing to to is get "The Black Powder Cartridge Primer" by Steve Garbe and Mike Venturino. It will give you direction as to what to use to load, how to do it and multiple loads for multiple chamerings with multiple bullets. Procedures and methods. There are other books out there, but this one is fairly comprehensive and is a good one for somebody just starting out. If possible, find somebody as close as possible who has experience with BPCR and ask them if they would show you the ropes. Hands on is the fastest way to conquer the learning curve.
That said - I have a Rolling Block (original ca. 1879 action), 34" heavy Badger barrel (1:18 twist) and new wood. The load I use most often is 70 gr Goex Ctg grade BP, LR mag primer, .030 card wad, Lyman 457125 bullet (500 gr RN) and homemade lube (similar to but not the same as SPG lube). I have shot this load from 25 yds to 1000 yds and am comfortable with it.
This BPCR stuff can get under your skin so I hope you have some money left for more of the good stuff
. Have fun ! ! !
BYW - ET knows a thing or three about this game. Heed his direction and comments.