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You're saying that the government is entitled to the fruits of its collective extortion because it provides collective benefits, aren't you?




Please look up a definition of collectivism. Then we will talk.



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But I don't think you're really opposed to all forms of collectivism. I know I'm not. For example, my family is much closer to operating under economic collectivism than economic capitalism--internally, I mean.




I believe we were speaking of governments, not families, in this context.



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Funding techniques differ, and so do people's opinions of what constitutes "necessary government."




Yes, that's why we have representative government, i.e., so we can come to an approximation of a consensus on the matter. The more decentralized the government structure, the more likely any individual will live under a local government that shares his view of what "necessary government" is. The Constitution sets the limits for the federal government.



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And if you decide you don't need or want those services?




Well, if you are entirely self-sufficient, I suppose you will have no need to ever pay sales tax. If, however, you choose to benefit from the trade environment, then you pay as you go.



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Why do you need a coercive government to help you conduct business?




I believe we've covered this one ad nauseam already.