So... wait a minute.
Your challenge to us was to show a published load that came within 100 FPS of 3000.
JB cited some. Somehow those don't count?
I showed you one from Lapua, and somehow that doesn't count either? Even if you dial it back 50-60 FPS to account for the difference in barrel length?
Quite independent from Lapua, I instrumented my 6.5x55 and came up with a load that shoots 6 FPS slower than Lapua at pressures below 60 KPSI. Somehow that doesn't count?
Tough audience!
I saw one of those once. It wasn't nearly as bad an experience as you seem to think.