Please accept my condolences in this difficult time. I remember some of your husband's posts, where he expressed pride in his family. It was clear he was a devoted family man.
I'll second that. You and your family will be in our prayers this Sunday morning.
EVERYBODY is pro-gun, some just don't know it. When an anti-gun person is in trouble, the first thing they do is call 911 and demand that they send somebody with a gun!